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Graham's Grandson: Is God Knowable?

By Lillian Kwon|Christian Post Reporter

He's one of 19 grandchildren of the renowned evangelist Billy Graham. He grew up in what he called an "amazing Christian home" yet he couldn't figure out where he fit in that home.

  • Billy Graham Grandson
    (Photo: AP Images / Wilfredo Lee, File)
    Tullian Tchividjian, senior pastor of the New City Presbyterian Church, right, his daughter Genna, and his wife Kim sing along during a service Sunday, Aug. 12, 2007 in Coconut Creek, Fla. Tchividjian calls the family patriarch Daddy Bill. That's Billy Graham to you. Tchividjian cuts a far different profile than evangelicalism's elder statesman. It's not that he isn't proud of his heritage. But at 34, back in the fray, with a book just out and a congregation to call his own, he says the spiritual path he's forging is all his own.

Tullian Tchividjian recently released his first book Do I Know God?, describing his own spiritual quest – from his years of "worldly bliss" to the time he cried to God for help.

Son of Graham's eldest daughter, Gigi, Tchividjian is the middle of seven children.

"The flavor of Christianity that was expressed by my family was not legalistic or oppressive. It was joyful, warm, inviting, hospitable, and real. I am, however, the middle of seven children and to be honest, that wasn’t easy," he said in an interview with Justin Taylor of Crossway Books in Wheaton, Ill.

Even growing up under one of the most admired evangelicals in America, Tchividjian found himself making some unwise choices.

"I rebelled against everything my family stood for," he said, according to The Associated Press.

Tchividjian dropped out of high school and spent several years trying to "find himself" through promiscuity, drugs and alcohol.

During his rebellious stage, his grandparents, Billy and Ruth Graham, never preached to him or gave him a lecture, Tchividjian said in the interview.

"They always told me they were praying for me, that they believed God had His hand on me, and that if I ever needed anything, not to hesitate to let them know," he explained. "Their unconditional love for me during that time was stunning."

At age 21, when his fun came to an end, Tchividjian cried to God and his life drastically changed. Billy Graham called the turnaround an answer to his prayer.

"God graciously brought me to the end of myself," said Tchividjian. "God came to me and God conquered me."

Tchividjian entered seminary and currently pastors New City Presbyterian Church in Coconut Creek, Fla., which he started in 2003. As he leads some 450 members from the pulpit, he – like many evangelists following Graham, including Graham's younger generations – said he's not trying to fill in the shoes of his grandfather.

"I'm not sure that carrying my grandfather's torch is what I or any other young evangelicals would want said about us," he said, according to AP. "There's a distinction of what God has called me to do and what God has called him to do."

Tchividjian's first book was written to answer two basic questions: Is God knowable? And, if he is, how can I know that I know God?

"There is so much confusion regarding how we understand a relationship to God," he noted.

"I started thinking about why false assurance (of knowing God) is such an epidemic in our time as well and whether or not I could be doing more to prevent it. Believe it or not, one of the most strategic mission fields in North America today is the church!"

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  • Fri Feb 13, 2009 1:20 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    Praise God for this... what an awesome family! What an awesome God!

  • Thu Sep 13, 2007 8:59 pm Agree: 3   Disagree: 1

    I believe that the answer to sharing the gospel in N. America today has much in common with riding a bike, balance. We must balance between the truth of there being a just Creator to whom we are all accountable and the grace of that Creator who pull back from harsh & deserved eternal condemnation to offer us forgiveness alonw with a genuine loving personal relationship.

    I doubt that Tchividjian was brought to repentance as a result of a deeper understand of God's law. It sounds like it was the grace of his parents and grandparents working in harmony with hound of heaven the Holy Spirit.

  • Mon Sep 10, 2007 6:38 pm Agree: 5   Disagree: 1

    ""I started thinking about why false assurance (of knowing God) is such an epidemic in our time as well and whether or not I could be doing more to prevent it. Believe it or not, one of the most strategic mission fields in North America today is the church!""

    The answer is a simple one: The Law, the Ten Commandments "By the Law is the knowledge of sin"Until you know your need for a savior you will not care if you are an enemy of God through your wicked works. But when you see your sin in it's true Light, then you agree with God your deperate wickedness and desrved sentence of Hell. ONLY THEN will the Cross be salvation and the Gospel Amazing grace..
    The Key to evangelism and revival is the preaching of the Law of God to prepare the lost to received Jesus in repentance that is so life changing Jesus called it being Born Again.

  • Sun Sep 09, 2007 4:12 pm Agree: 6   Disagree: 6

    Spirtuality and calling for the ministry are not easily and geneticaly inherited. Most of the well known Christian leaders had to suffer the agony of wayward and rebellous children. But all the great men of God had faith and an anchor to hold on; that God will make a detour in the
    situation. Personally, I will have to undergo rebellion from my children about their lost faith in
    God due to unexpected painful events of life, but I still hold on to God that He will put all the
    puzzles in the right place at the right time. We have, as believers in Christ, will have to face
    trials of life every day, but God's grace is so abundant.

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