PORTLAND, Ore. - The inability of the church to discuss a topic that has become taboo among many Christians is one of the root causes why millions of Americans are leaving the church and never to return, says one author.
There are "Christians who have experientially lost their faith" but have no one to turn to since church culture shuns the topic, Dave Samford said Thursday.
It's not that these Christians lost their salvation, but that they have lost their faith in the Bible, the church and Christian beliefs, said the author, who was addressing attendants at the annual convention of the Evangelical Press Association in Portland, Ore.
Over 31 million Americans are part of this exodus from the church, Samford said, citing a Barna Group study.
"Any business that is losing 31 million customers is going out of business," he told a room of Christian journalists and editors. "[It] is the greatest crisis among Christians today in the U.S., Canada and some parts of Europe…We must break the silence in our publications.”
In his upcoming book, If God Disappears: 9 Faith Wreckers and What to Do About Them, Samford details nine reasons he uncovered through listening to stories of those who exited the church on why Christians abandon faith.
Most of the time, Christians leave because of a "wounded" experience. They either deliberately walk away due to questions and doubts that go unanswered or they feel that God has walked away or "disappeared," observed Samford.
The author noted that he too "experientially" lost his faith a few years back when he encountered a series of unfortunate news, including his daughter being diagnosed with endometriosis – a condition that affects the womb.
"I felt God was pounding and pounding and pounding on me," he said.
Although Samford at the time was serving in multiple Christian positions – vice president of Publishing and Internet Ministries for the Luis Palau Evangelistic Association and a member of Evangelical Press Association – he said his faith was discouraged to a point where he couldn't even say a prayer before a meal.
But looking back at his situation, Samford said he realized that God used the crisis in his faith as a "hinge" to re-work his wrong theology and allowed his faith to be more vibrant than before.
He has since applied his experience to his ministry where he comes alongside those who have experientially lost their faith and walks beside them in their journey.
Speaking from experience, he believes Christians who return back to the faith can become a phenomenal force to revitalize churches.
"When you come back, you come back for good. You come back with a passion" and reach out to others who have left the church, he said.
In an effort to raise awareness on why many leave the Christian faith, Samford called on the Christian media to help put this understated issue before churches.
"Otherwise at EPA in three or four more years, it's going to be 37 million."
If God Disappears is slated for release in the fall.
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I do lay ministry at this church. The pastor and I are on the same page. I don't exactly look like the pastor type and work with the 'outer church' made up of those who are looking for answers without getting burned again.
Believe me folks, the megachurch like ours and many others fully realize the problems with such a large church. Why are the megachurches growing so much? It creates an environment where people who want to heal can heal in Gods time and have the support they need. The problem, contrary to STEVEs post isn't a lack of called ministers in the pulpit. It's a lack of called ministers among the people.
As for "called ministers", the Bible says Pastors are 'sent' along with several other positions in the faith. The 'acid test' is the fruits. If they sow and reap from the flesh ... or do they sow and reap from the Spirit?
I can tell you now! No money hungry leader is going to do that! It has become more about self than the well being of all. People think they can survive in a political correct church, be accountable to no-one, and grow as a Christian. They cannot. True Christianity demands relationship,. We were created, not only to be dependent upon the Most High God, but also dependent upon the Christ within one another. Christians have made themselves dependent upon the 'pastor's word' for the week. Hence, they are limited by the leadership and they limit one another. Gifts and callings are sitting in these large mega-churches are lying dormant. All to the gratification of the mega-church pastor and the detriment of the nation.
It’s just going to get worse! The pastors are just giving the people exactly what they are wanting.
I was a custodial single parent with 4 school age children (who are all now grown) so I do know something about hard times and people turning their backs on you. However, that is when you discover those who really understand the gospel and those who don't. Many will say Lord, Lord but few will enter. We need to rightly divide the Word and apply it. I don't want someone saying "you saw it and didn't say anything and now I'm headed for hell".
I see in the gospels where Jesus showed the example of calling it as it is. Anything less is not following His example.
The issue of Christians falling away is most likely (speaking from a world of personal experience here) the failure of the Church (that's you and I, not some larger group of believers) to address suffering as an integral part of the Christian faith and our relationship to God. Instead, emphasis is placed on playing the part of the "good Christian", keeping your suffering to yourself, shake your heads at those who go through a crisis of faith, and abandon anyone getting in the way of the overall purpose and vision of the Church.
You people are something. Don't you know better than to pass on these judgements of people. DRJ, your incredibly uneducated comment (The CHURCH is comprised of people who have died to themselves and now live as unto the Lord Jesus. They have surrendered any and all of the "rights" they once clung to as non-believers. They exist to please the Lord and to make known His love to the rest of mankind. If anyone belongs to a "church" that doesn't believe, live, and preach these things, they had better hit the road, shake off the dust, and move on to a healthy group that does) is unfortuately the norm today, and comes from fear and from people who have never been, or never admitted to being, broken. DRJ, I would like to see how long you would own those words if God decided to burst your little self-righteous bubble and throw your life into complete despair. I have no room for people who have not been down on your face before the Lord, with your soul writhing in despair, calling on the Lord to restore you, listening to His silence. Oh, and losing everyone around you from the "Church" because they believe just like you and run in fear for their own lives. DRJ, once you get to that point, go back and read your post and see how you feel about it then.
How do I know? Why, because I was like you before God brought me to my knees.
sheep.Never the less the sheep will come and go; but be the faithful shepard and they will
come home.Kinda sounds like li'l Bo Peep.
I have met many ministers/pastors throughout my walk and I can tell you that while most are well intentioned there are few who can state with a certainty, "God called me to this place".
What I have more heard is, " I felt called".. The call is not a feeling. The "Call" is something so strong that it interferes with every other worldly concern....
I was called when I was 16.. that conviction stayed with me until 37 years old.... and I finally surrendered to it.
The reason the church is dying is because a man truly called by God would not be fearful to preach the truth. Look at the church today.. it's dying in its current form because the church made a deal with the devil here in the US when churchs accepted the tax exemption..it came with a string.. they werent allowed to preach about particular politicans or else...