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Opinion|Fri, Jun. 13 2008 10:41 AM EDT

Fatherhood and the Future of Civilization

By R. Albert Mohler, Jr.|Christian Post Guest Columnist

Longman's short answer is sure to attract attention and spark controversy. His very use of the word "patriarchy" will set many teeth on edge. After all, the elimination of patriarchy has been one of the central goals of the feminist movement. According to feminist ideology – shared by vast segments of the population – is that patriarchy represents the institutionalized form of male domination. Therefore, the liberation of humanity from the last vestiges of patriarchy has been a central feminist goal.

Nevertheless, Longman argues that the return of patriarchy is almost assured, given the social crisis that will be produced by a catastrophic fall in birthrates.

"Patriarchy does not simply mean that men rule," Longman explains. "Indeed, it is a particular value system that not only requires men to marry but to marry a woman of proper station. It competes with many other male visions of the good life, and for that reason alone is prone to come in cycles."

Longman understands the simple fact that a great deal of cultural capital is required in order to encourage young men to marry and men of all ages to fulfill responsibilities as husbands and fathers. The normative picture of the "good life" for men, at least as presented in the dominant media culture, does not include the comprehensive responsibilities of fatherhood. When men are not stigmatized for failure to be faithful as husbands and fathers, young men will take marriage and parenthood with little significance, as many will avoid marriage and fatherhood altogether.

To some extent, the statistics tell the story. Almost twenty percent of women born in the late 1950s are nearing the end of their reproductive lives without ever having had children. Longman's assessment is blunt: "The greatly expanded childless segment of contemporary society, whose members are drawn disproportionately from the feminist and countercultural movements of the 1960s and 70s, will have no genetic legacy."

Beyond this, the falling birthrate contributes to many other social ills. "Falling fertility is also responsible for many financial and economic problems that dominate today's headlines," Longman asserts. "The long-term financing of social security schemes, private pension plans, and health-care systems has little to do with people living longer. . . . Instead, the falling ratio of workers to retirees is overwhelmingly caused by workers who were never born."

The effects within the society are psychological as well as demographic, political, and financial. As Longman understands, declining birthrates can also affect what he calls "national temperament." He attributes the fact that the American voting population has become more conservative in recent years to anxiety over falling birthrates. Beyond this, we must now add the fact that millions of voters, who would have been raised by more liberal parents, were simply never born.

For some, the political dynamic will attract the greatest interest. "Among states that voted for President George W. Bush in 2004, fertility rates are 12 percent higher than in states that voted for Senator John Kerry," Longman reports. That statistic is nothing less than shocking. A twelve percent differential in data like this is highly significant and troubling. Looking to the future, Longman projects a "demographically driven transformation" of many cultures. "As has happened many times before in history, it is a transformation that occurs as secular and libertarian elements in society fail to reproduce, and as people adhering to more traditional, patriarchal values inherit society by default," Longman argues. Continue »

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  • lina »
    Thu Jun 19, 2008 1:07 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    What happens to everyone's assets after the Rapture?

  • Tue Jun 17, 2008 10:05 am Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    It is indeed difficult for people to understand that God designed this existance. If He had created woman first then woman would be the head (1 Timothy 2:9-15). Just like with any other thing that is created (by man too) there may be more than one way it could have been created.

    The key issue is respect for the creator by using the creation the way the creator intended. God created one man and one woman for life. This would, by its very nature, would mean dad was to be around and being the leader of the home.

    One of the main problems is that men haven't realized their value in Christ and therefore have a difficult time showing their family their value in Christ. Feminists tried to get their value by being accepted by men! They wanted to be viewed as equal by men did they not? Woman should never degrade themselves in such a way. Woman are congruant (sp). They are quite different but have the same VALUE to Christ and therefore should to men. They are uniquely created to compliment what man does. It's a team concept.

    Here's one for the twist your brain catagory... Was Adam in charge in the garden or was it after the fall that God put that in place? Could it be that man being in charge is a result of sin and that as Christians the Biblical relationship between husband and wife is simply to be an illustration of Christ and the Church?

  • Sat Jun 14, 2008 1:22 am Agree: 1   Disagree: 0

    P2
    Today we live in western societies that act in the fashion of a mother.

    If you are born in most western countries, generally no matter who you are and what you do, and whether you disobey the rules, you are considered a citizen...to the detriment of our countries and society.

    This love is a lawless one, and ultimately conditions what has been deemed as oikophobia. The oikophobes of our day have the freedom to hate their own countries and to plan deceitfully against their own mother countries...yet they are still considered its children by default..

    It is about time that we start calling our countries fatherlands once again. Where to be called a citizen, one has duties and obligations that have to be met, and not just be born there to receive all its benefits...

    And it is about time that our societies recognize the intrinsic roles of a father and mother in a family. We cannot have two mothers or two fathers.

    We need a father and a mother so that unconditional love and acceptance from the mother can be balanced with conditional love based on the rule of law...from the father..

    And neither do we admit or will ever submit in the liberty of our human spirit to a god that does not have the virtue to call itself mother or father. Such a god is a monster...and our lands are not to be monsterlands...
    Here humans are treated and act like monsters...in the virtue of their vile and monster god.

    What love is this? When suicide and mass murder is worshiped as a virtue of a monster god?

    Only a monster god cares nothing for the lives of its worshippers to call them to suicide and outright murder. Who would not pray?

    God our Father...

    or to sing:

    This is my Fathers World
    and to my listening ears
    all nature sings and round me rings
    the music of the spheres.

    This is my Fathers World
    I rest me in the thought
    of rocks and trees, of skies and seas
    His hands the wonders wrought....

  • Sat Jun 14, 2008 1:21 am Agree: 1   Disagree: 0

    P1.
    Daily we are being brainwashed into believing that a father and mother are no different than 2 female parents or 2 male parents. We have absorbed these ideas w/o question, but ultimately to the detriment and the abasement of our societies.

    There are differences between how a father and how a mother interact, and we ought to care how our children are brought up.

    The mothers perspective is molded from the fact that the child begins as a part of her. Having given birth to the child she cannot deny that it is hers. Hence, their future interaction is one that is built on an automatic and established position of acceptance from the mother. The love and parenting of the child is premised on this very undeniable condition.

    A father does not birth the child, and therefore cannot know whether the child belongs to him.. Hence, a fathers love is conditioned on the basis of how the child interacts with the father.

    A father begins to establish a means of interaction that is based on whether a child obeys or disobeys. Hence the child is conditioned to the father through the rules of the father as he tests obedience.

    A child belongs to his/her father as the child grows up according to the expectations placed upon him by the father. The child shows his love for his father by following the fathers rules.

    A few corollaries can be drawn from this.
    1. The Christian God calls himself Father and not mother, because it is only those that strive to obey God(as a positive act of response to His love) that can be expected to be called His children, and continue to receive His love.

    2. In our European societies we used to refer to our lands as fatherlands for a reason.

    Those who love their country will obey its rules. (Christian rules for a land that stem from God the Father.)

    Those that do not obey the laws of their country cannot love their country or be considered its children.

  • Fri Jun 13, 2008 7:53 pm Agree: 1   Disagree: 0

    Mohler is correct when he distances patriarchy away from muslim culture.

    IAllah does not refer to himself as father...and hence shows that fatherhood in islamic culture is not understood as much as tyranny is....hence islamists are not even children, but slaves to allah...the tyranny ...

    In Christianity God refers to Himself as Father...as a result we are His children...

  • Fri Jun 13, 2008 5:03 pm Agree: 1   Disagree: 0

    But before Jesus' coming back, the ones of Satan will prevail, and those who love Jesus will suffer from them as foretold in Bible.

  • Fri Jun 13, 2008 5:00 pm Agree: 1   Disagree: 0

    there is definitely nothing wrong for patriarchy. Feminists are definitely of Satan. It is God's design and assignment.

  • Fri Jun 13, 2008 4:57 pm Agree: 1   Disagree: 0

    Finally, someone senses the problem of couple w/o marriage and children.

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