Updated 12:47 pm.EST, Sun November 22, 2009

World|Wed, Oct. 29 2008 08:55 AM EDT

HIV+ Pastor: Poverty Caught Up with Me

By Michelle A. Vu|Christian Post Reporter

Mnkandla said that he has to cross the border to neighboring Botswana to buy food because the shelves of stores in Zimbabwe are empty.

Dr. Raju Abraham of India, who studied in England as a neurologist, emphasized that the Church – if it is true to the Gospel – must not only think about saving souls, but also respond to the physical needs of people.

“Souls are more or less attached to the body,” Abraham said, drawing laughter from the crowd. “I believe winning souls is important; I am very committed to that, but the soul is attached to the body.”

The conversation then switched back to HIV/AIDS when panelist Sally Smith, who is an adviser with UNAIDS and previously served as a BMS medical missionary in Nepal for 16 years, challenged those who support the ABC (Abstinence, Be faithful, and use Condom) model of HIV prevention.

She said in Nepal, girls are forced into arranged marriage and they do not know who they will marry until the day before. Smith, who has adopted two Nepalese children, said it is usual for girls to cry on their wedding night.

The UNAIDS advisor challenged the ABC model supported by many evangelicals and Christians because it is based on the Western idea that all women have the power to choose and make their own decision.

“Most women in the Middle East, in Asia and Africa have no choice to who they marry,” Smith said. “On their wedding night they cannot choose to be abstinent. They cannot choose the faithfulness of their husband. And when they see that he is being unfaithful, they cannot ask him to use a condom.

“So ABC has failed the women of the world, and we need to think again about comprehensive approach to HIV prevention and empowering women to make choices that will save their life,” she said.

Panelist Dr. Peter Okaleet of the ministry Medical Assistance Program, who has both a medical and theological degree, responded to Smith by saying he supports another HIV prevention model – SAVE, which stands for Safer sexual practice, Access to medication, Voluntary counseling and testing, and Empowerment.

“If the A and the B and the C are not working, how do we then move this discussion forward,” Okaleet asked.

Church leaders, he believes, need to listen to what UNAIDS and other agencies are saying and be open to dialogue even if they don’t agree completely with what the secular community says in hope that God will move forward their effort to prevent HIV.

Sawo concluded the “Living Room” session by sharing one more revelation she received during her time in poverty.

“One thing I realized is that when you are fighting poverty, there is that part in you that says I don’t want to beg,” she said. “And you kind of think that when you speak out that people will see you as a beggar. And you hate to be a beggar, and you hate to be in poverty.”

Sawo called on agencies, governments, and churches to empower people instead of just giving handouts.

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  • mike »
    Fri Nov 07, 2008 3:01 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    to cheala34life
    'However, people's bad choices cannot cause you to miss a blessing'
    what happened to the people in jonestown & waco tx. the majority of what christianity teaches is what - obedience. there are verses in the bible that shows how the pharisees tell the people to obey the sabbath law & if you oppose that teaching obedience you are called arrogant, proud, if you do not obey they ACCUSE you of sin. there are thousand of people ruined because of the word - obey. so that is why you end up doing & following a 'childish & immature' teaching bec of the abuse that is going on in the church. they would even quote that story about adam's fall bec. he did not 'obey'.

  • Thu Nov 06, 2008 3:06 pm Agree: 1   Disagree: 0

    Mike - First off let me say that you are correct. Our leaders in churches should have more compassion and understanding and mercy. You are correct when you say there are some who are self righteous and arragant like the pharisees.

    However, one thing you need to consider. Having a relationship with God is not a group thing its and individual thing. God knows the person who is hypocritical and causees others to stumble. It was Jesus who said that it would better a millstone be tied around the persons neck than to cause one of these to stumble. It may seem as if God doesn't notice, but he does. By the same token he does not excuse the individual for not accepting him because someone has caused them to be turned off from accepting his son Jesus Christ.

    Lastly, although i agree the church as a whole needs to realize how serious this thing is. Peoples live are at stake. However, people's bad choices cannot cause you to miss a blessing. Only you can allow a situation to turn you off.

  • mike »
    Wed Nov 05, 2008 3:12 pm Agree: 1   Disagree: 0

    After reading this article, I thought christians & pastors SHOULD have COMPASSION, MERCY, JUSTICE. but instead they behave like the pharisees - self-righteous & arrogant- showing disdain for those who are suffering & then pointing to sin. that sounded like the neighbors of job accusing him of a hidden sin for his suffering or Pharisee-like attitude & behavior - they look down on 'sinners' looking for something to 'accuse' other about their sin. that is why I am turned off with christianity bec. of this kind of 'christian' attitude & 'christ'like' behavior. there are plenty of verses in the bible showing the arrogance of the pharisees, accusing everybody that suffering = sin / sin=suffering. they slap you with 'religion' or shove the bible down your throat when you are in need of help.
    another truth is the reason why people 'MISS the BLESS' is not bec. of lack of faith but the arrogance of christians are a 'stumbling block' to the blessings.

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