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Ministries|Mon, Nov. 10 2008 10:38 AM EST

Pride Keeps Many from Turning to God

By Billy Graham|Christian Post Guest Columnist

Q: Why do some people refuse to give in to God, no matter how hard things get for them? You'd think they'd realize they need God and turn to Him, but they don't. I have a cousin like this, and no matter what happens to him he simply won't admit he needs God. It doesn't make sense. - Mrs. L.Y.

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A: You're right: It doesn't make sense for people to turn their back on God when they obviously need Him - yet it happens all the time. God loves them and wants to help them, but they still stubbornly refuse to turn to Him.

God may even be using these circumstances to try to get their attention - and yet they still refuse to listen or turn from their ways. They are like the people of Jeremiah's day: "They did not listen or pay attention; instead, they followed the stubbornness of their evil hearts" (Jeremiah 11:8). Sadly, because of this, their nation was eventually destroyed.

What is the problem? Why are we like this? The problem can be put in one word: pride. We think we can get by without God; we may even think it's a sign of weakness to admit we need Him. But pride blinds us to our own faults, and it also makes us stubbornly cling to our own ways. But pride is a sin; in fact, it's at the root of almost every other sin. The Bible warns, "Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall" (Proverbs 16:18).

Pray for your cousin; only God can open his eyes and convict him of his need of Christ. Also, make sure you put Christ and His will first in your life every day.

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Affectionately known as the “World’s Preacher” for more than 60 years, the Rev. Billy Graham is one of the most influential and respected spiritual leaders of the 20th century. He has been a friend and spiritual advisor to ten American presidents and has preached the Gospel to more people in live audiences than anyone else in history — nearly 215 million people in more than 185 countries and territories — through various meetings. Hundreds of millions more have been reached through television, video, film, and webcasts. Send your queries to "My Answer," c/o Billy Graham, Billy Graham Evangelistic Association, 1 Billy Graham Parkway, Charlotte, N.C., 28201; call 1-(877) 2-GRAHAM, or visit the Web site for the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association: www.billygraham.org.
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  • Sat Nov 15, 2008 9:33 am Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    i think it's kinda funny that only 4 have posted any remarks on 'pride'

  • Thu Nov 13, 2008 8:54 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    mike, your post makes absolutely no sense.

  • Thu Nov 13, 2008 8:10 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    While I was in a U.S. domestic flight, I shared
    the gospel with a computer engineer from a Far Eastern
    country, who was studied in a Christian school. He was
    very much interested to hear the way of salvation and
    was ready to say the sinner's prayer. When I asked him
    to repeat after me, and he did to certain point. But
    he will not admit that he is a sinner, he said bluntly
    "I will not say that". I closed with a brief prayer and
    asked God to deal with him in His time. The greatest
    danger of life is pride and God will not tolerate those
    individuals with pride of life.

  • Mon Nov 10, 2008 3:48 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 1

    Mike: Yes, but pride is a killer. All of us have been guilty of having pride. Pride was part of the saducees and pharisees way of life. Job 41 is a chapter all about pride.

  • mike »
    Mon Nov 10, 2008 11:20 am Agree: 0   Disagree: 1

    Pride? what those pharisees & people in the bible who are a 'stumbling block' Mr graham? christ rebuked them by saying 'you pharisees SHUT THE DOOR OF HEAVEN ON MEN'S FACE.'

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