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Ted Haggard: Public Appearances Help Heal 'Festering' Wound

By Eric Young|Christian Post Reporter

There are many who feel disgraced megachurch pastor Ted Haggard reopened old wounds by returning to the public eye just two years after a drugs and sex scandal brought him down and forced him out of the church he founded.

“I wish I could feel more benevolent and compassionate toward Haggard and his struggles with his ‘complex sexuality,’” commented Dave Welch, the founder and executive director of the U.S. Pastor Council and Houston Area Pastor Council, in a commentary that appeared last week on WorldNetDaily.

However, “Haggard seems to be determined to revel in and profit from his immorality, in spite of the extensive and gracious restoration efforts by the church leadership at the fellowship he once pastured,” Welch added.

Since Jan. 9, Haggard has given dozens of media interviews in part to promote "The Trials of Ted Haggard," a 41-minute documentary that paints a sympathetic portrait of the ousted charismatic leader after the scandal in 2006. Directed by Alexandra Pelosi, the daughter of liberal House Speaker Nancy Pelosi, “The Trials of Ted Haggard” debuted on HBO this past Thursday and will be airing throughout the month.

“Rather than continuing in the process of personal restoration, rebuilding his marriage and quietly seeking how God could take the broken pieces of his ministry and use them, he (Haggard) has decided to ‘make a living’ by going the write-a-book, tell-your-story and appear-on-talking-heads route,” Welch wrote last Tuesday.

“The fact is that his fall is far too recent … and ongoing for him to be doing the circuit if his motives were pure,” the conservative leader added.

Though Pastor Brady Boyd, Haggard's successor at New Life Church in Colorado Springs, Colo., warned Haggard of the potential consequences of the HBO documentary during a meeting in December, Haggard decided to move forward with his return to the public eye, explaining to Larry King last Thursday that contrary to what Boyd said last week, the wound was not reopened in recent weeks.

“I think the wound has not healed,” he told King on “Larry King Live.”

“And I don't think we're reopening it. I think what's happening is it's been festering,” he added. “And we needed communication. And we needed to process it. And it can't process.”

According to Haggard, “loads of New Lifers” have been writing to him on his website, TedHaggard.com, since his return to the public stage, some going as far as telling him they are being healed through his appearances.

“[T]hey saw me on ‘Oprah’ or have seen some of the shows where I'm saying I'm sorry. And they're writing about how healing it is to hear my voice and hear me say I am sorry for what happened,” Haggard told King.

“I want people to heal,” he insisted. “So I think in this process what we're doing is we're just kind of cleaning out some of the things and making it so it can heal.”

Still, there are many, including former New Life volunteer Grant Haas, who wish Haggard would return to obscurity.

"He's reopening a lot of old wounds – not only me, but other families at New Life Church," Haas told CNN prior to Haggard’s appearance on “Larry King Live.”

Haas was a young volunteer at New Life Church when he met Haggard, who at the time was among of the most influential evangelicals in the United States. Haas would later be a victim of Haggard’s undisclosed “sexual immorality,” which included Haggard’s highly publicized cash-for-sex relationship with a Denver male prostitute. Continue »

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  • Tue Feb 03, 2009 11:58 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 1

    Cheala34life wrote: "...for those who think Ted has sit for years until he is restored..how long do you think that will be? Man has put restrictions on when the a "restoration process is finished. What does he have to say in order for some one to trust him again?"
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    It's not just saying, but showing over a period of time that what he is SAYING AND what he is DOING are consistent. He was leading a large church, was head of the National Association of Evangelicals, deceiving both until he was caught, bringing great shame on all churches because of his lack of integrity. Now he has to show over time that his repentance is real. However, his blaming the church is blame-shifting, just like Adam. That shows lack of ownership and lack of repentance. Until he comes out of denial, his trustworthiness is questionable. We are not to be naive but to protect the church from those not modeling integrity.

    "Re: Judas, David...Ted Haggard...but the moment he asked for forgiveness, God heard him and forgave him."
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    There are two issues here: forgiveness and restoration. Yes, God forgives. I forgive Ted but he has forfeited the trust people put in him and now he has to re-earn it. The restoration process necessarily is much longer because, for years, Ted deceived his church and family. Otherwise, it glosses over the seriousness of long-term sinful deception. The concept of restoration/restitution is throughout the scriptures. God's goal is restoration but that assumes changing ungodly attitudes and behaviors. Non-believers rightfully criticize the church because the church has not cleaned up its act, whether sexual abuse, financial abuse, rampant divorce, splits, etc. The church is to model something of heaven. Cleansing begins at the house of God. Most people will forgive when they see that the offender truly owns his behaviors, truly gets it that he has caused much pain for others, and commits to a program of character transformation. Check out AA: only the first step deals with alcohol; the other steps are to do with character issues.

    "if you look in all of scripture God gives second chances. Scripture doesn't teach that if you screw up you can't teach or preach again. Can God use him again? of course... True forgiveness is to see Ted as he was before the fall...although God deals with us in a fallen world he does not see his fallen children, but as he created us...in his image."
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    Yes, God can use Ted again. But his ministry is NOT as important as his own personal life and family. Limelight addiction is a distraction from dealing with real character issues. Yes, true forgiveness sees Ted forgiven. But forgiveness cannot be separated from repentance and restoration, esp. in something this serious. True restoration sees him as someone who has lived in deception, who now must re-earn the trust he forfeited, and submit to a restoration team. Restoration is not condemnation, it is restorative, IF the offender submits.

  • Tue Feb 03, 2009 5:37 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 1

    TED HAGGARD: GET OVER IT!

  • Tue Feb 03, 2009 4:14 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 1

    if it isn't about sex, then it's about money. If it isn't about money, then it's about,.....

  • Tue Feb 03, 2009 4:13 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 1

    more big name preachers are going to come out of the closet. oh lord help us

  • Tue Feb 03, 2009 4:12 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 1

    sounds to me like Haggard wants more attention. well,...he's getting it, isn't he? so sad

  • Tue Feb 03, 2009 10:44 am Agree: 0   Disagree: 1

    Saw: "All Lary was doing was boosting ratings!"

    Such keen perception! How does Saw see things that escape so many of us? And he always counsels with such abiding love, doesn't he? (Actually, he's only about one degree away for my own sarcasm, but - hey! - I'm casting the stones right now, so get out of my way, please.)

  • Mon Feb 02, 2009 5:32 pm Agree: 1   Disagree: 1

    This is the exact reason why all Christian organizations to include churches need an accountability process in order to as much as possible prevent situations like this from occuring but also have a plan in place to biblically and effectively deal with these matters when they occur.

  • Mon Feb 02, 2009 5:04 pm Agree: 2   Disagree: 2

    I posted earlier, but I had another thought. I believe Ted should accountable for his actions. I also believe he should have contiuned therapy. But I will say this we all are fallible.

    for those who think Ted has sit for years until he is restored..how long do you think that will be? Man has put restrictions on when the a "restoration process is finished. What does he have to say in order for some one to trust him again? Again, I am not let him run loose, but when look at the life of Jesus, how did he treat Judas? Jesus knew Judas had issues. He was a thief. Look at the life of David. pre-meditated murder, adultry and child as result. David was suppose to die for what he did, but God was merficul toward him. Ted haggard has hurt many people. He has no doubt ruined lives. Consequences of his actions will follow him for many years to come, but the moment he asked for forgivness, God heard him and forgave him.

    The problem is since we are flesh and don't have thd mind of God..(well not that relying on God is a problem), but in our best judgment we don't have his mind or heart. We have to rely on his word and our discernment. if you look in all of scripture God gives second chances. Scripture doesn't teach that if you screw up you can't teach or preach again. Can God use him again? of course...will man use him again? Now that is the million dollar question.

    Man will never look at him without seeing what he did..that is part of his consequence, but God doesn't see it anymore. True forgiveness is to see Ted as he was before the fall...although God deals with us in a fallen world he does not see his fallen children, but as he created us...in his image. This is wants to elevate us to again.

  • Mon Feb 02, 2009 1:44 pm Agree: 1   Disagree: 1

    The only reason this guy is sorry is because he got caught! Now all he is doing is fleecing the sheep once again by his road side show of 'Woe is me!' I am all for people repenting but what he is doing is not repentance it is a circus. Do you think Lary King gives a hoot about what he did? All Lary was doing was boosting ratings!

  • Mon Feb 02, 2009 12:53 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 1

    Phillo, well said indeed. PRAISE TO OUR LORD AND MASTER JESUS CHRIST

  • Mon Feb 02, 2009 12:21 pm Agree: 1   Disagree: 0

    We readers don't have all the facts so can only observe from news reports. I think it would be more "healing" if Ted simply issued a statement/video that he was sorry for what he had done and for the people that were hurt by his lack of integrity, and that he would share again after a couple of years of confronting his long-standing issues, in counseling. That would make his confessions more believable, and not distort true repentance since what Ted did, did not just happen overnight.

    Ted's situation is somewhat comparable to Jimmy Swaggart, who when caught, refused to submit to the two year restoration process the Assemblies of God had in place. He was back in "ministry" about 4 or 5 months later, as an independent, since he would not submit. And that is the nature of sin, acting independently of God and those to whom one is accountable. Some worship the "work of the Lord" more than the "Lord of the work." If I'm not willing to lay down my ministry or the "limelight," it has become an idol, and I will do whatever it takes to serve that idol.

    When someone refuses to follow a restoration process, and refuses to stay out of the limelight for a couple of years, denial, self-will and "limelight addiction" have usually not been dealt with. Maybe I'm wrong, but from what I understand, Ted chose to not follow through the restoration process with those initially appointed.

    If I don't learn from my mistakes, I will likely repeat those mistakes. Yet learning from mistakes takes the hard work of sifting through the actions, words, motives, wounds, addictions, beliefs that contributed to the problem. Otherwise, I will just work harder at a better "outward appearance" and covering my tracks rather than focusing on inward transformation.

    The scriptures are clear that leaders are more accountable because of their influence and modeling. Forgiveness of Ted is one thing, rebuilding trust is another. Trust is rebuilt by following a clear plan of restoration for a reasonable time period decided upon by appropriate leaders, not by the one who has offended. I do not know of any restoration council that would recommend at this time that Ted go on Oprah, make a documentary, etc. Ted is self-sabotaging his welcome back to the church because of the message that is sending - that he is spending time in the limelight and blaming the church (whose trust he betrayed) rather than working on his issues. If there are confessions/apologies/progress reports to be made, let them be signpost statements issued by the restoration council until Ted's restoration period is deemed completed.

    I don't judge Ted - there go I but for the grace of God. Only God knows Ted's heart. But I am very concerned that he is missing an opportunity to really deal with some life-long issues. Transformation is the best and most believable way of truly saying, "I'm sorry." That takes grace, truth and time in a framework of accountability.

  • Mon Feb 02, 2009 10:47 am Agree: 1   Disagree: 0

    I think these type of apperances will stop when TH is honest with himself and his wife and family about his obvious to anybody with eyes to see, homosexuality. On that day though it may not seem like it real healing will start. Until then, these sorts of episodes will occur.
    Steve

  • Mon Feb 02, 2009 10:17 am Agree: 2   Disagree: 1

    I saw part of the interview. I would like to say that i still consider Ted Haggard a brother in Christ. I believe it was a good thing that God exposed him. His soul is more important than any ministry he will ever have. Having said that, its seems as if the church is reluctant to let him back in. Once someone has fallen or committed a sin it does not mean they can never preach or teach again. I believer his restoration process is a component to his recovery. I also realize that people struggle with issues. Ted is not the only minister struggling with this isssue. The bible says that whom God loveth he will chastise. God loves Ted Haggard so much that he allowed his sin to be exposed so he could see where he was spiritually. This is what we all need.

    I hope is able to be in the pulpit again. I believe the church should forgive him also. Many of us forget where we were when God found us.

  • Mon Feb 02, 2009 9:35 am Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    Correction to my last post- is he donating this money to any worthy ministry that will help GOD'S kingdom instead of pocketing it?

  • Mon Feb 02, 2009 9:31 am Agree: 1   Disagree: 0

    A real test of his heart would be if he is doing the talk show circuit and making money is he donating this money to some orginization that helps sexually abused people? Or is he just profiting from his 15 minutes of fame/shame ? Something to think about.PRAISE TO OUR LORD AND MASTER JESUS CHRIST

  • Mon Feb 02, 2009 12:19 am Agree: 0   Disagree: 2

    Actually, we just "bumped into"the Larry King show. I had heard about it, but I planned to miss it. I thought this guy should just stay out of the limelight. Some of his remarks were a bit odd (like what really is the difference between "a heterosexual with homosexual attachments" and "a heterosexual with complications?" These may be real distinctions. I don't know.) However, I was, finally, somewhat moved by what the man had to say. He may be like Tammye Faye and Jim Bakker, who SURELY did not ever mean to cause so much harm to themselves and to the body of Christ (none of which was permanent, of course). Who (except Billy Graham, for one example) can keep his/her head when everyone around you gives you such power? A rare person, indeed!

    I still think it might be wise for Haggard to stay out of that limelight. He does, though, have a family to support - and I'm sure some of these appearances are profitable. He must be weighing the pros and cons.

    At one point on this Web site I said that Haggard should just apologize to that nice wife (which she certainly seemed to be on TV), apologize to his children, too - then go marry a man. Now I'm not so sure about that. None of us can know Haggard's heart. He still has quite a battle ahead, I think.

  • Sun Feb 01, 2009 10:33 pm Agree: 2   Disagree: 3

    Forcing him into silence and out of the only profession he has only known will do nothing but satisfy those who now oppose him. The fact of the matter is, these people want to see him miserable, poor, and broken, but he is finding new faith in Christ who has lifted him up through his lowest point, and that is a beautiful thing. Why not let him share that story?

  • Sun Feb 01, 2009 10:26 pm Agree: 3   Disagree: 0

    I sympathize with his plight but he obviously cares nothing about the Kingdom or the Body of Christ to be making such a public spectacle of this.

    Jesse

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