Updated 11:59 pm.EST, Fri November 20, 2009

Missions|Thu, Apr. 09 2009 12:31 PM EDT

Author: 10 Things I Hate About Christianity

By Michelle A. Vu|Christian Post Reporter

So you're frustrated with Christianity? So is a former pastor and founder of a Christian rock band who wrote his first book, 10 Things I Hate About Christianity, to help himself and others resolve the issues they have with the Christian faith.

“This book is filled with my angst-ridden frustrations,” writes Jason T. Berggren, founder of the Christian hard rock band Strongarm and former associate pastor at Calvary Fellowship Church in Miami. “This book is me sitting on the counseling couch having it out with God. Telling Him how I feel and trying to find my way.”

But contrary to what the title suggests, the book is meant to channel the anger and frustration non-believers and believers have with Christianity and use it to build a stronger relationship with God.

In raw, sometimes uncomfortably honest writing, Berggren tackles the top ten frustrations he struggles with in his Christian faith. They include faith, prayer, the Bible, sin, rules, love, hell, church, Christians, and various discrepancies between the reality in the world and what the Bible says.

“I thought that since I was tapping into truth I would have all my questions answered, all my insecurities would go away, and I would get everything I wanted,” said Berggren to The Christian Post in an interview Wednesday.

Christians had “planted” that misconception into Berggren’s mind early on in his faith life when they said if he had enough faith then everything would come true.

“That didn’t happen,” he stated.

“My faith did bring me clarity and peace more than I had before, but it didn’t fix every problem in my life,” said the author who grew up in a broken home where his stepmother said she didn’t love him and his mother was never around.

Sometimes it even seemed like believing in Jesus added to his inner struggles.

“Over and over, I’ve had to face certain aspects of my faith that don’t seem to line up,” he writes.

The first frustration Berggren tackles in his book is the problem of faith when it seems like God “didn’t come through.” The author shares that he is sometimes mad at God when prayers aren’t answered, and hates the “fantasy element” such as God’s invisibility and not being able to prove God’s existence with facts and figures.

But what Berggren came to realize about the value of his faith is that it is “the reason good times are better and it makes hard times livable.”

“I think that’s essentially the promise God does make to humanity as we place our faith in Him – he’s still with us regardless of how we feel,” he writes, after telling a true-story about his college friend, also named Jason, who abruptly took his own life after facing hardship.

“My faith is still a mystery in many ways, which drives me insane, but I also know it’s the one thing that’s true,” Berggren states.

The former rocker, whose band disbanded and who is now a Christian writer/local handyman, is also frustrated when it seems like the Bible is being inconsistent.

“I hate that I can’t figure it all out,” Berggren declares.

For example, he notes, in the Ten Commandments God says do not murder, but then God tells King Saul to kill the Amalekites. Another problem he sees is God’s chosen kings had multiple wives when the Bible teaches Christians to have only one wife. Continue »

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  • Sun Apr 19, 2009 10:35 am Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    Okay one more time!

    Rock Star and song writer and producer, Bono, was told by his spiritual mentor and priest, "Stop asking me for God's blessings on your song albums, instead get involved in God's projects; they're already blessed."

    Bono delivers a message that tugs at your elbow to give it a listen: "Bono's preek" can be heard in its entirety here (YouTube): http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gUdrYDk8rVA

    I try to compose off site, then copy and paste on site for better wording... I are an engineer... but this site seems to insist we compose only on-site... okay. Sorry for all the false start repeats.

  • Sun Apr 19, 2009 10:31 am Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    Rock Star and song writer and producer, Bono, was told by his spiritual mentor and priest, â

  • Sun Apr 19, 2009 10:27 am Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    Rock Star and song writer and producer, Bono, was told by his spiritual mentor and priest, â

  • Fri Apr 17, 2009 11:18 am Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    "For me, it was suddenly caring more about how and what God viewed as important, as opposed to what was important to me. His word became my guide."

    Nicely, put. Too many people who call themselves Christians forget that what God commands them to do is the important thing. They use Him as an excuse to justify non-christian behavior that they don't consider themselves capable of because they "believe" or have been "born again." They use the "once saved, always saved" view to behave badly and selfishly in their relationships with others, assuming it doesn't affect their relationship with God. How wrong they are. God wouldn't have given us guidelines for living in Scripture if He didn't expect us to follow Him through them. You've hit the nail on the head by subjugating your wants to God's and living with the guidance of His word.

  • Mon Apr 13, 2009 4:03 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    "That is a great way of saying the same thing I think. Repentance is the only way to God through Jesus and it sounds like you had a change of heart and decided that you were wrong, He was right and that you would follow Him, if I understand you correctly."

    Oldstudent: yes, you are right, as time went on I found this to be the easiest answer for what it meant to be "born again"

  • Sun Apr 12, 2009 7:07 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    Shooter38,

    That is a great way of saying the same thing I think. Repentance is the only way to God through Jesus and it sounds like you had a change of heart and decided that you were wrong, He was right and that you would follow Him, if I understand you correctly.

    Grace and Peace,
    Jim

  • Sun Apr 12, 2009 11:08 am Agree: 3   Disagree: 0

    "Jesus said to repent which is a term that means to have a change of mind, heart and will. In the Roman military it would be the equivalent of saying "about face." In order to repent one has to change their outlook and our actions follow this change of heart and mind."

    For me, it was suddenly caring more about how and what God viewed as important, as opposed to what was important to me. His word became my guide. Pleasing God, as much as I was able given my understanding, gave me so much pleasure and joy, comfort and peace. My greatest desire is to one day hear "Well done good and faithful servant"

  • Sat Apr 11, 2009 1:29 pm Agree: 1   Disagree: 0

    "But contrary to what the title suggests, the book is meant to channel the anger and frustration non-believers and believers have with Christianity and use it to build a stronger relationship with God."

    Thanks for clearing that up. So I guess the title is just meant to catch ones attention to the book.

    I would let the Holy Spirit be my guide.

  • Sat Apr 11, 2009 12:33 pm Agree: 1   Disagree: 0

    Honsohn,

    Your question is a good one but an easily explained one.

    Grace is unmerited favor given to someone who doesn't deserve it. We don't deserve a relationship with God but He initiates that relationship with us (The Spirit convicts the world of sin and righteousness). So our salvation comes by grace, He initiates the relationship and does the work of changing someone who becomes a follower (Romans 3, Romans 6)

    Jesus said to repent which is a term that means to have a change of mind, heart and will. In the Roman military it would be the equivalent of saying "about face." In order to repent one has to change their outlook and our actions follow this change of heart and mind.

    So when Jesus speaks of "those who do" and many will claim, "Lord, Lord" this is not contradictory. Jesus was speaking in a Jewish context where people knew that faith was "proved" by action. If you truly believe that Jesus is Lord, that will translate to your life and actions. If you have no actions then you really have no faith (James 2) because if you or I believe something is true, then we will act on that truth.

    So in the end, we can't boast about our salvation because we didn't initiate it or make it happen and if we do love God we will follow His commands, teachings and love others and this will show in our works. In the end, the old saying, "the proof is the pudding" is very true.
    Does this help?

    Grace and Peace,
    Jim

  • Sat Apr 11, 2009 11:06 am Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    I am trying to get an honest understanding of different views of Christianity. These are often quoted:
    Eph 2:8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: [it is] the gift of God:
    Eph 2:9 Not of works, lest any man should boast.

    Ok, fine. I read in the Gospel of Matthew, the Sermon on the Mount. Jesus says many many things that you should do. He then says:
    ""Not everyone who says to me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only he who DOES the will of my Father who is in heaven." (my emphasis on "does")

    He then concludes by giving the story of the guy building his house on a rock which begins:
    Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and PUTS THEM INTO PRACTICE is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. (again, my emphasis)

    This is just one small example, as you know, there are many, many others. My question is why those two quotes from Paul, outweigh what Jesus said? Jesus consistently talks about things you should do to gain salvation. Why didn't he just say, "God just picks you, your works don't matter?"

  • Fri Apr 10, 2009 8:49 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    "GOd-s covenant with His people is a covenant of marriage."

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Amen. What a love story indeed!

  • Fri Apr 10, 2009 1:16 pm Agree: 1   Disagree: 0

    What a good discussion, thumbs up for all! Jehovanissi, great post on the Father's drawing us first and illustrating the fact that we don't decide within ourselves to come to God, but He draws us; this is a Divine romance with our Maker.

  • Fri Apr 10, 2009 1:09 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    ukelelemike, I prefer to think of Confessional Lutheranism not so much as 'Catholic Lite' but as 'Protestant Biggie-Sized'.

  • Curt »
    Fri Apr 10, 2009 11:24 am Agree: 1   Disagree: 0

    Reply to tiponeill1, Jesus in answering the questions of the Pharisees said this Matthew 19:4-6:
    "4 "Haven't you read," he replied, "that at the beginning the Creator 'made them male and female,'
    5 and said, 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh'?
    6 So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate." Wife is in the singular. It was God's intent beginning with Adam and Eve. Multiple wives alway produced multitudes of problems. Jesus also describes what marriage is: One man and one woman for life.

  • Fri Apr 10, 2009 12:07 am Agree: 1   Disagree: 0

    Jehovahnissi,

    Thank you for that post. Please pardon me; I'd like to add one other Word ...

    James 1:5-6 - "If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. But when you ask, you must believe and not doubt, because the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind."

  • Thu Apr 09, 2009 10:35 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    DanielWalking,

    Excellent post. God bless.

  • Thu Apr 09, 2009 8:39 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    David was a man after God's own heart. Still he made some really messed up in the head choices. I heard one pastor say "men...wouldn't your head be messed up if YOU had 8 wives???"

  • Thu Apr 09, 2009 8:09 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    tip, Genesis 2:21-24, Matthew 19:4-6, and I Corinthians 7:2-3 all speak to marriage being only one man and one woman.

  • Thu Apr 09, 2009 6:46 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    "Another problem he sees is Gods chosen kings had multiple wives when the Bible teaches Christians to have only one wife. "

    Ummm - where does the Bible say that ?

  • Thu Apr 09, 2009 6:45 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    "Another problem he sees is Godâ

  • Thu Apr 09, 2009 5:51 pm Agree: 1   Disagree: 0

    I dig this guy's approach. Just an honest account of his walk with the Lord , a voyage of discovery and the pursuit of truth. I hope that many believers (and unbelievers) who have the same issues will pick up a copy and read it. Who knows how God will use this book ?

  • Thu Apr 09, 2009 2:48 pm Agree: 1   Disagree: 1

    akapapajohn: Lutheranism? So, you're saying there's complete understanding to be found there? Lutheranism is like, Catholic Lite: all the formalism without the Pope.

    Seriously, while I disagree that murder is always killing, because Jesus said that to hate your brother without a cause it as to commit murder in your heart, but otherwise, it sounds like he deals with some good, valid questions. Too often new converts are given the impression that once they're saved, everything will be hunky-dory, no more problems, just a smoooth ride until heaven, while the opposite it true-"In the world, ye shall have troubles; but behold, I have overcome the world" Troubles will abound, and unless Christians are taught this from the beginning of their walk, they won't be ready when they come-we walk contrary to this world if we walk as children of God, and that brings trials and tribulations. And it certainly doesn;'t make it much easier when, like Job, those happen when we are doing things right and the Lord chooses not to let us in on why it's happening. But like Job, we need to have our final answer be, "blessed be the name of the Lord". He is able to keep us from the fire, but He is also able to bring us safelt through it.

  • Thu Apr 09, 2009 2:20 pm Agree: 2   Disagree: 0

    I have always had more questions than answers so I can certainly identify with Jason. I believe that God is big enough to handle our questions. A relationship does not always mean understanding. God cannot teach us if we will not listen. It seems that I always learn more when I able to ask questions. God's word says that if anyone is without wisdom let him ask and wisdom will be given. He tells not to lean on our own understanding rather to trust God.

  • Thu Apr 09, 2009 1:56 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 1

    I understand some of his frustrations, but clarity comes when we realize that since we are not greater than our Master Jesus Christ, who suffered greatly, we will suffer. He told us that the world would hate us and that we would be persecuted. The Bible also says "think it not strange concerning the fiery trial which is to try you as though some strange thing happened to you." I try (I said try lol) to keep that mind set because we are not of the world, but we are in it. And he does need to do some studying on the relationship between the Mosaic Law and Jesus Christ, and the Old and New Testament.

  • Thu Apr 09, 2009 1:20 pm Agree: 1   Disagree: 2

    Sounds like Berggren could use a good dose of good ol' Lutheranism. An understanding of the proper division of Law and Gospel and the Theology of Glory vs. the Theology of the Cross would go a long way towards sorting out his problems.

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