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Education|Fri, Sep. 25 2009 04:47 PM EDT

Can Christians Call God 'Mother'?

By Randal Rauser|Christian Post Contributor

Much of the controversy that has been stirred up by William Paul Young’s bestselling novel The Shack relates to the depiction of God the Father as an African American woman and the Spirit as an Asian woman. With this daring innovation, Young introduced the evangelical church to a debate that has been going on for several decades in the mainline Christian churches: is it ever appropriate to think of God with female imagery and titles? Is it ever appropriate to call God Mother?

Whenever the question of calling God Mother has been broached in the church, the response has often been, to say the least, negative. Indeed, charges of idolatry and Goddess worship are quick to follow. According to many of the vocal critics, the incorporation of mother language into liturgy, hymnody and prayer constitutes a grievous error at best, and apostasy from Christian faith at worst. But is that charge warranted or is there something to be said for thinking of God as Mother?

Two views on mother language

Before we enter into the center of the debate over Mother-God language, we should note that one could argue for it in a strong way or a weak way. According to the strong case Mother language ought to be included in our liturgies, hymnody and prayers as a supplement to Father language. According to this argument, without female imagery and terms of address, our thought about and experience of God is impoverished.

The weak case makes no claims that Mother language is necessary for the fullest experience of God, but instead seeks only to argue that it offers an additional way to think of God available to those who cannot conceive of him as Father.

Of course this prompts the question of why anybody would have a problem with Father language. In my experience many evangelicals assume that any difficulty with thinking of God as Father comes from a rebellious feminist spirit that refuses to submit to male authority. The great thing about The Shack is that it blows the doors off that assumption. In the book we meet Mackenzie Phillips, a grown man who cannot relate to God as Father not because of any aversion to male headship, but rather because his human father was a vicious abuser.

This prompts yet another question: how many people – women and men – might there be who find it difficult to relate to God as Father? However many there may be, the weaker case asks us to consider opening up to them the possibility of thinking of God with maternal images and language.

The Transcendence of God

Any debate over language and God should begin with the recognition that God transcends our experience and language. The word “transcendence” comes from a Latin word meaning “to climb beyond”, and it is used by theologians as a way to emphasize that God exists beyond our experience and understanding. In Isaiah 61:1 the prophet describes God’s transcendence as follows: “This is what the LORD says: ‘Heaven is my throne, and the earth is my footstool. Where is the house you will build for me? Where will my resting place be?’” (TNIV) In the same way that God exists beyond any place of worship that we would build for him, so he always exists beyond our concepts, ideas and experience.

In the present case this means that while we may think of God with male categories, God is no more limited by those categories than he is limited by the four walls of a house of worship. God transcends both male and female as surely as he transcends architecture.

Once we come to recognize the full extent of the divine transcendence we can recognize that it may in principle be possible to think of God with personal categories beyond the masculine. Continue »

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  • Mon Oct 26, 2009 12:29 am Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    Since God is not a human and says that we are created male and female in the Imago Dei, it is appropriate for a person to use female symbols and name in relation to God. Holy Wisdom is also a way of refering to the feminine aspect of the divine. Catholics have brought in the feminine through Mary and a host of saints. Protestants react against the feminine aspect of the divine because of a literalism that all to often mirrors the fear of a judgmental father. God does not have a masculine fear of the feminine.

  • Tue Sep 29, 2009 9:07 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 3

    "First, it is possible that Jesus is accommodating to a patriarchal culture."
    If you believe the above argument then you are compromising the very Word of God. You probably don't believe everything Paul wrote then either. God's Word is Truth for all generations.


    "Thus, it would appear that “Father” functions more like a title than a proper name."
    Yes, I agree with this statement. It is His Title, and that is What Jesus taught us to call Him. Therefore, I will be obedient to my Lord and Savior. God is definitely a God of Relationships. We should Love Him with ALL our heart, soul, mind, and strength, and Love our neighbors as ourselves.
    Will you be obedient, or will you create a God to your own liking? Of course we know that it is impossible to be obedient without the indwelling of the Holy Spirit.

  • Sun Sep 27, 2009 4:48 pm Agree: 4   Disagree: 8

    I am theologically very conservative and I thoroughly enjoyed your thought-provoking column. I believe that to expand the metaphor of God as Father to include the "mother's role" has the potential to bring healing to many people. Personally I did not have a nurturing mother and my father died before I knew him. In my case I came to experience God as both my father and my mother. I am so grateful that God revealed himself in both roles. He became a "nurturing mother" to me and filled that important role that my natural mother was incapable of doing. He became my protective father as well. This allowed me to mature into a whole, functional adult. I am so grateful that "God transcended my experience and language" (quoted from your column) and met my deepest needs for both maternal and paternal care. Thanks again for getting Christians to think through complex issues with sensitivity and depth.

  • Sun Sep 27, 2009 10:57 am Agree: 5   Disagree: 9

    Many thanks for this article Dr. Rauser. I think this is one of the most compassionate and courageous columns I have ever seen here.

    As a gay man, obviously the issues of gender go even another dimension beyond this for me. But I think we will be a healthier society if at least we can agree that our mothers are every bit as wonderful and deserving of love and respect as our fathers. I would never want my children to think their mother was any less made in the image of God than I am.

    Your thoughts also open doors from the perspective of Christian theology. The idea of an all-male deity of three persons is unsatisfying. How can one be a Father when there is no such thing as a Mother? What does it even mean to be a Male in a "species" where there is no such thing as a Female?

    Again, thanks for the insightful and thought-provoking column.

  • Sat Sep 26, 2009 10:22 pm Agree: 7   Disagree: 5

    Neal,

    Thanks for sharing. Your first person experience speaks volumes into a difficult (and at times acrimonious) discussion.

    That said, your transformative experience came one day rather suddenly. The question is whether other Christians who find themselves in a similar place are likewise obliged to wait for a similar discovery of God as Father. A person could argue that this is great for you but it does not necessarily mean God always acts in this way, and perhaps for some a maternal conception of God could bring that healing.

    Personally I had (and have) a great father and thus do not struggle with these issues, but I have seen many other Christians who do.

  • Neal »
    Sat Sep 26, 2009 3:07 pm Agree: 6   Disagree: 7

    The arguments presented (trauma center for abused women, had a bad dad, etc) are EXACTLY why we need to maintain the Biblical image of God as our Heavenly Father. I had a father who was "absent", busy about his Father's business. With three older brothers with whom I could not keep up and three younger sisters with whom I could not compete, whether real or perceived, I grew up as a "middle nobody." Then, when I was eight, my father died. My mother did not remarry. I had no adult male role model. I did not have a good image of "father." But one day... though I had read it many times before, one day, as I was reading Psalm 139, it was as if there was no one else in the whole universe except my HEAVENLY FATHER and me. Billows of His love washed over me, enveloping me in His presence. And I was healed. An abused wife or child does not need the image of a "heavenly mother!" They need the healing touch of their Heavenly Father. I do not deny that there is great comfort to a child to crawl up into its mother's lap, and cuddle in the folds of her comforting arms. But those cannot replace the strength and security of the arms of Dad. ~~~NEAL

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