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Oct 19,2009, 12:31PM

GAY DIVORCE WOULD UNDERMINE MARRIAGE

Homosexual activists, fighting to attain legal same sex marriage, are creating an unlikely battleground:  divorce courts. In the latest skirmish, a Dallas judge, Tena Callahan, has ruled that her court has jurisdiction to hear the "divorce" case of two men "married" in Massachusetts in 2006 and now living in Texas.

 The decision caused quite a stir in the state where, in 2005, 75 percent of voters passed a constitutional amendment to define marriage as the union between one man and one woman.  Everybody thought that meant: NO GAY MARRIAGES; period; end of story.

But homosexual groups are trying to figure out how to force same sex marriage on states where voters are clearly and overwhelmingly against it.  This attempt to get the courts to grant divorces to gay couples is one way they're going about it.  Jennifer Pizer, marriage project director for the gay advocacy group, Lambda Legal, predicts an eventual end to bans on same sex marriage in Texas and across the country.

 The idea is to persuade the courts to recognize same sex marriages just enough to dissolve them. The momentary recognition of same sex marriage for the purpose of granting a divorce would allow gay activists a foot in the door, cracking it open enough to begin shoving through demands for full gay marriage rights.  

 Thirty states have taken the strongest possible legal stance against same sex marriage by amending their constitutions to ban it.  But this Dallas judge says the Texas marriage amendment violates the constitutional concept of equal protection under the law. This is the same argument that's being used to challenge California's marriage amendment, famously known as Proposition 8 in federal court. Many legal experts say it will not hold. 

The traditional definition of marriage does not interfere with anyone's personal liberty.  And it does not exclude homosexuals from the protection of the laws.

 Texas Attorney General Greg Abbott will appeal Callahan's ruling.  He says that because the state doesn't recognize same sex marriage, its courts cannot dissolve such a "marriage" through divorce. Abbot has fought this agenda before. In 2003 another Texas court granted the dissolution of a civil union. Abbott successfully had the ruling reversed.

And this strategy to undermine marriage laws has been tried in other states.  Last month, an Indiana judge denied the divorce of two women "married" in Canada.  Two years ago, the Rhode Island Supreme Court rejected the divorce of a Massachusetts-"married" lesbian couple.

 Constitutionally, courts are supposed to interpret and uphold the law, not rewrite it.

Supporters of same sex marriage know it's not popular.  In nearly all of the few states where gay marriage is legal, it was imposed by the courts.  Marriage amendments were supposed to be a firewall against this.  State officials must fight hard against this backdoor attempt to get the recognition of same sex marriage into states whose laws and constitutions clearly prohibit it.

GAY DIVORCE WOULD UNDERMINE MARRIAGE
Homosexual activists, fighting to attain legal same sex marriage, are creating an unlikely battleground:  divorce courts. In the latest skirmish, a Dallas judge, Tena Callahan, has ruled that her court has jurisdiction to hear the "divorce" case of two men "married" in Massachusetts in 2006 and now living in Texas.
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1.October 20,2009, 1:40PM
Might I also add that homosexuality is not a "behavior." It is a natural variance in human sexual orientation.

Treating gay people differently under the law is the same as if we treated green eyed people or left handed people differently. There is no legal basis. Which means it is discriminatory.

Gay or straight, we all choose our behaviors but we do not choose our sexual orientation. Given the option, why would anyone "choose" to be gay? You would have to enjoy being discriminated against. That doesn't make any sense.

You are free to believe whatever you want about gay people (or green eyed people or left handed people) but no majority of voters can decide it's ok to treat one group differently under the law just because they don't like them. It won't stand up.
--garageguy
2.October 20,2009, 1:01PM
Ms. Dexter, it is sad that your personal religious beliefs have led you to prejudicial views for which you not only are not ashamed but seem almost proud.

Are you aware that civil marriage has no connection to religious rites of marriage? For example, any atheist couple can get a marriage license. No religious component whatsoever. Yet you seek to discriminate against gay couples in that civil arena based solely on your supernatural beliefs. I find that exceedingly un-American.

What about the children being raised by gay couples? Are you really so quick to leave those childfren out in the cold without the rights and protections a legal marriage automatically bestows? Shame on you.

What harm can possibly come from extending a legal marriage license to a gay couple? You mention the benfits of the institution of marriage; I agree wholeheartedly. If it's good for heterosexual relationships why is it not equally good in the exact same ways for homosexual relationships?

You claim discriminating against gay couples in this way is not the same as discriminating against interracial couples. I think you are wrong. How is it different? If the state or federal government offers legal status to your love relationship with a host of rights, protections, and privileges tossed in, then if we are a country based on equality and liberty then I must be offered the same thing. It is not illegal to be gay, so on what legal grounds do hope to sustain a system of treating you differently than me?

Rep. John Lewis, longtime ally and close associate of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., has said,

"I have fought too hard and for too long against discrimination based on race and color not to stand up against discrimination based on sexual orientation. I’ve heard the reasons for opposing civil marriage for same-sex couples. Cut through the distractions, and they stink of the same fear, hatred and intolerance I have known in racism."
--garageguy
3.October 20,2009, 12:37PM
Karen and Garageguy,

I appreciate your posts. I am not suggesting that homosexuals and lesbians marry opposite sex partners. There is no duty to marry. But there is no right to call marriage something it is not. At least not until gay marriage is voted in and that is something I oppose.

In a few places, the state has decided that gays can marry. But not in Texas. Here and in 29 other states the people voted to keep marriage the way it's been for millenia....they put it into their state constitutions, so the courts couldn't change it. You may not agree...but that's what the people of these states did. I think they were right. It's not the same as interracial marriage, which was depriving equality. Gays have civil rights.....but changing the definition of an institution: marriage is not a civil right.

In this country you are free to choose your sexual behavior and relationships. But marriage, biblically, is between one man and one woman. If you don't read the Bible, or care what it says, then I can understand why you would want to change marriage to agree with your lifestyle. But I do not support it.
And before you say it....I also acknowledge that Christians have downgraded marriage by divorcing so much.

Marriage is a good institution for society because it focuses parents on each other and their children and forms a unit where children can be supported financially and emotionally and nurtured and grow into good citizens. This is not negated if everyone does not marry...or if every married couple does not have children. Marriage is a societal good. I want to keep it that way. In fact I'd like to encourage heterosexual couples to make their marriages stronger and try to gut it out before divorcing so easily.

You are both made in the image of God. My prayer is that you would understand the diginity he bestowed upon you.

Penna
--pdexter
4.October 19,2009, 4:26PM
"The traditional definition of marriage does not interfere with anyone's personal liberty. And it does not exclude homosexuals from the protection of the laws."

Lady, are you high? When a gay couple embarks on their life together, but does so without the benefit of a legal marriage, how are you considering that equal?

Or are you suggesting that gay people should ignore the truth of who they are and marry people of the opposite sex, to appease holier-than-thou bigots like you? If so I would like to know if you are willing to marry YOUR son or daughter off to a gay person?

Your silly article seems to purport that equality and civil liberties are things up for popular vote. Go take a Civics 101 class. The reason we have a Constitution in the first place is to protect minorities from people like you.

Who do you plan to go after next? Surely it's someone. Your kind feeds off putting others down. Disgusting.

Karen Delano
Columbus, OH
--delanok
5.October 19,2009, 3:55PM
Ms. Dexter seems unaware that in the United States the power of the people is not without limitations. And for good reason.

When the California State Supreme Court legalized interracial marriage in 1948, 90 percent of Americans opposed it. By 1958, the number actually increased and 94 percent of Americans said they did not approve of marriages between interracial couples.

Then in 1967, when the U.S. Supreme Court legalized marriage equality for interracial couples on a nationwide level, 72 percent still opposed it. Activist judges indeed!

It wasn't until 1994 that these people were in the minority for the first time with 41 percent opposing and 45 percent approving of interracial marriage equality.

Thank god we have a constitution and a judicial branch of government to set us right when we the people make mistakes. Like we are with gay marriage equality.

Ms. Dexter, how about you wield your pen to help put an end to bigotry, Dearie, not promote it.

Sources:
http://www.gallup.com/poll/28417/most-americans-approve-interracial-marriages.aspx
1948 figure from Gail Mathabane, "Gays face same battle interracial couples fought," USA Today, 2004-JAN-25.
--garageguy
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