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What Does It Take to Make a Marriage Last?

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By Billy Graham, Christian Post Guest Columnist
August 22, 2010|7:01 pm

Q: My wife and I have only been married a few years, and we love each other more than ever. But we read about people getting divorced after 20 or 30 years of marriage, and it worries us. What does it take to make a marriage last? - M.E.

A: I'm thankful you have a strong relationship now - but I'm especially thankful you realize there could be dangers ahead, and you want to take steps to prevent them. A good marriage doesn't just happen; it takes work - but it's worth it.

I could say much about building a strong marriage - but I've sometimes summarized them in four simple points that might be easy to remember. Let me repeat them; each begins with the letter "C".

First, Cherish. God gave you to each other; you are God's gift to your spouse. Take time to express your love, both by your words and by little acts of thoughtfulness - a surprise gift, a special time away, a favorite dinner. Cherish your wife, and let her know she is important to you.

Second, Communicate. Let each other know what's going on in your life at home or at work. Don't clam up; don't nag or only express yourself when you're upset. The Bible says, "A word aptly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver" (Proverbs 25:11).

Third, Compromise. The greatest enemy of love is our selfishness, but in marriage you can't always have your own way, so learn to compromise with grace. The Bible says, "Love does not demand its own way" (1 Corinthians 13:5, The Living Bible).

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Finally, Christ. Make Christ the center of your lives and your marriage every day, by committing yourself to Him and His will. He is the solid foundation we need - in our lives, and in our marriages.

Affectionately known as the "World's Preacher" for more than 60 years, the Rev. Billy Graham is one of the most influential and respected spiritual leaders of the 20th century. He has been a friend and spiritual adviser to ten American presidents and has preached the Gospel to more people in live audiences than anyone else in history - nearly 215 million people in more than 185 countries and territories - through various meetings. Hundreds of millions more have been reached through television, video, film, and webcasts. Send your queries to "My Answer," c/o Billy Graham, Billy Graham Evangelistic Association, 1 Billy Graham Parkway, Charlotte, N.C., 28201; call 1-(877) 2-GRAHAM, or visit the Web site for the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association: www.billygraham.org.
 

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