Melissa Gorga Proves that Joe Gorga Defends Sister Teresa

Melissa Gorga, the 34-year-old singer from "The Real Housewives of New Jersey," recently took to her Bravo TV blog to prove that she does not control her husband the way some fans of the reality television show may think.

Gorga has been feuding with her sister-in-law Teresa Giudice since joining the show in its third season. In the most recent season five episode, Giudice's brother, Joe Gorga who happens to be Melissa's husband, let his wife know that she was wrong for tweeting rude things about his sister's financial status.

While Giudice has let her brother know how much he takes his wife's side even when she is wrong, Gorga took to blogging to prove her sister-in-law wrong.

"A whipped man would never call out his wife if he thought she did something wrong. Joe wasn't happy about my Chanel bag tweet," Gorga wrote on her Bravo TV blog. "Meanwhile, anyone who says he never sticks up for his sister should be eating their words right now. In my own defense, I posted it in reaction to Teresa retweeting a link to a nasty blog about me."

Gorga explained why she tweeted mean things about her husband's sister.

"I was pissed off, and I impulse tweeted in retaliation. We're constantly going tit for tat, and we'll never get anywhere that way," Gorga wrote. "Joe told me I was wrong to do it, and I agreed with my husband. I shouldn't stoop to her level. It only gives her something to complain about."

However, Gorga insisted that the moment with her husband was a reflection of a real marriage.

"...When we're alone, if one of us has a problem with something the other did -- even something as minor as tweet -- we talk it out. Sometimes, we yell it out," Gorga revealed. "..We don't put on an act like we're happy and laughing all the time. That's not who we are, or what we want to represent."