As Christian college students across the country make the pilgrimage home for Thanksgiving, some of them return carrying more baggage than just overflowing laundry bags. College has confronted them with a slew of questions they didnt know they hadquestions ranging from faith to sexuality to politics to their own future. If theyve dared to identify themselves as Christians at a secular university, theyve likely already felt the brunt of a professors scorn or have even been called intolerant by a classmate.
Such was the experience of Abby Nye, who graduated from Butler University last spring. Spurred on by her journalist parents, she decided to document her experiences as a Christian at a secular university. In her new book, Fish Out of Water: Surviving and Thriving as a Christian on a Secular Campus, Abby covers topics ranging from orientation week, to the lecture hall, to theyou guessed itparty scene.
Through her own experiences and those of friends at other universities, she helps Christian students prepare mentally and spiritually for a college experience that their parents could not have imagined as recently as twenty years ago.
First, she dismantles the T-bomb: tolerance. Tolerance is a word tossed around like a hand grenade on campuses today. The shrapnel from being labeled intolerant can feel like a mortal wound. Abby Nye, however, isnt afraid to take so-called tolerance head on.
She emphatically explains, Todays tolerance makes the assumption that we all hold different beliefs, but those different beliefs are all equal. That appalls me. If Im going to take the time to believe in something, have a conviction, live it out, and stand up for what I believe in, what good is it if I dont even believe that my beliefs are true? And if my beliefs are true, she continues, why would I even consider a conflicting belief to be on the same level? I wouldnt!
I wish more Christians had this twenty-somethings conviction. But what I like most about Nyes book is how she engages the culture and encourages us to do the same.
While a defensive duck-and-cover drill would be, by far, the easiest game plan for a Christian at a secular university, it wouldnt be right. Nye goes on the offense, and she coaches others to do the same. Start with courage, she writes. Get off the sidelines, jump in, and play ball . . . Resolve that you will speak up. Secondly, resolve that when another Christian speaks up, [even] if its not going well for him or her, that you will speak up and support that person. She cites Ecclesiastes 4:12, which says, Though one may be overpowered by another, two can withstand him (NKJV).
Nye further advises students to stay cool; focus on principle, not personalities; limit the Bible-thumping; be encouraging; and smile, because, as she says, Youre right.
If you know someone in college, this fall be a coach: a coach who arms them with an offensive game plan. Fish Out of Water will help that young man or woman not only survive but also thrive as a Christian on a secular campus.
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