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Sanford Tragedy a Cautionary Tale for Christians, Says Colson

By Aaron J. Leichman|Christian Post Reporter

A prominent evangelical leader is urging Christians to see the tragedy surrounding South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford as a “cautionary tale” and to break away from acts – big or small – that “betray” the Lord.

  • South Carolina Governor Mark Sanford
    (Photo: AP Images / Mary Ann Chastain)
    South Carolina Governor Mark Sanford ponders a question as he admits during an interview with The Associated Press that there were more encounters with his Argentine mistress than he previously has disclosed, in his office Tuesday, June 30, 2009, in Columbia, S.C.

“Nearly every grave moral failure begins with a small sin,” ministry leader Chuck Colson said shortly after Sanford admitted to engaging in an adulterous affair with a woman in Argentina. “Because there comes a time, after we toy with sin, when one pull of the flesh causes us to cross the line, to disengage from reason, and to follow our appetites wherever they may lead.”

After days of soul-baring and often odd confessions and apologies about his affair with a woman he called his “soul mate,” South Carolina’s governor is still figuring out how to salvage the last 18 months of his second and last term and his 20-year marriage.

Though top South Carolina Republicans and at least a half-dozen newspapers have been calling for him to step down, Sanford said he won’t resign and “is focused on being governor, on rebuilding his marriage and on building back the trust of South Carolinians," according to a statement issued Wednesday by his spokesman, Joel Sawyer.

The current situation is “very traumatic” and exhausting for the governor, added Sen. John Courson (R-Columbia), who has been communicating daily with Sanford.

But Courson told The Associated Press that Sanford is still fit to lead the state.

"I don't detect any emotional instability in his voice or inflections," the senator commented.

Colson, however, said last Friday that he believes Sanford will have to "gracefully withdraw from political life and try to put his shattered marriage back together."

Though said Sanford had been an "outstanding governor" and a "tenacious defender of family values" who "espoused the cause of Christ," Colson said Sanford's affair simply added him to the list of pro-family conservative Christian politicians who dishonored their families and their offices and the Christian faith they profess.

"I am bewildered," Colson said during this daily radio broadcast. "Sanford had it all-a beautiful wife and family, high public office, and he was a viable candidate, perhaps, for President. Why would he throw it all away?"

In searching for the answer, Colson was reminded of his own life and his own failures - including his involvement in the cover-up of the Watergate burglary during the Nixon administration.

“We humans, you see, have an infinite capacity for self-rationalization,” said Colson, who was the first member of the Nixon administration to be incarcerated for Watergate-related charges. “We reason that we can give in to those seemingly minor temptations – say an emotional attraction to a co-worker, or just one drink at the party – because we think we know the boundaries. We think our reason can keep us safe.”

Furthermore, Colson added, the wills of people are not trained to do what is good, but to do what pleases themselves.

But sin, regardless of its size and regardless of what a person’s position in society is, is not something to considered lightly.

“Are you toying with sin? If so, for yourself, your family, and your Lord – stop. Don't put yourself in a position of compromise,” said Colson, who became a born-again Christian not long after he was indicted in 1974 for conspiring to cover up the Watergate burglary.

“[L]et us – you and I – prayerfully ... train our will that we might, by God's grace and in fellowship with other believers who hold us accountable, not betray our Lord,” Colson concluded.

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  • Fri Jul 10, 2009 9:57 am Agree: 1   Disagree: 0

    Forget his governorship! He needs to work on restoring his marriage!

  • Thu Jul 09, 2009 9:40 pm Agree: 1   Disagree: 0

    Senator Ensign, like Sanford, turned to his roomies at C Street, his secret Chrisitian, tax exempt boarding house in D.C. Ensign not only paid off his mistress, he had her 19 year old son hired by a Republican committee, and got her husband a new job. Today he announced that his(Ensign's)mom and dad paid the mistress and family some $96,000 because they are charitable people. Those counseling sessions with Tom Coburn of OK. must be something.

  • Wed Jul 08, 2009 5:58 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    pburrell,

    Do not forget that at one time you were swimming in your sin, even as a Christian. When we get saved, we are not automatically perfect. We still have much of our sinful nature to contend with. Remember.

  • Tue Jul 07, 2009 6:33 am Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    Mr. Burwell,

    Although Sanford may not be a Christian, intentional sin doesn't make you a non-believer either. Your words although most likely heart-felt, are ignorant because you know not if Sanford is or isn't a believer. As with many who are picked up by "christianworldviewnetwork" (a very iffy title to say the least), your words here are in the same vein; speak first, speak confidently but are of a gong-like sound.
    Reminds me of our old Baptist joke; "our preachers may not always be right but they are never without thinking they are right."

    Grace and Peace,
    Jim

  • Sun Jul 05, 2009 9:48 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    Sanford did not "toy with sin" he swam in it, willfully, in the clear demonstration of the sinful nature of an unregenerate man. Adultery is sin.
    Governor Mark Sanford's actions demonstrate he was not a Christian when he made his plans and carried them out; he should be very afraid; God is not mocked.
    Fear YHWH, depart from evil. It is the goodness of God that causes men to depart from evil. His goodness that He would save such as us from the fate we so justly deserve.
    Jesus can save you yet Mark Sanford, and you as well, dear reader.
    Take the test and know your destiny:
    http://NeedGod.com
    Patrick J Burwell, OnlyJesusSaves.com

  • Sun Jul 05, 2009 8:37 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    Sanford should step down because he lft his state in a bad way. IF another 9/11 happened or some emergency situation arose, he was not able to return and he wasn't reachable by his own words. He should have the humility and responsibility to leave on his own but if not, they should remove him quickly.

    Grace and Peace,
    jim

  • Sun Jul 05, 2009 8:29 pm Agree: 1   Disagree: 0

    "Very dangerous to equate a political party to the Gospel!"

    I don't know. The point of the Gospel is that we are all desperately wicked and need Jesus. I don't know of any better example of "desperately wicked" than politics.... :D

  • Sun Jul 05, 2009 8:26 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    "I'd bet Gov. Snaford had no accountability partners who loved him enough to ask him the tough questions."

    They were limited for sure. It's a SC thing. Accountability partners simply are not as common as one would think. Southern etiquite says you don't concern yourself with what others are doing.... blah.

    Just FYI, SLED (South Carolina Law Enforcement Div.) has cleared Sanford of any wrong doing as far as the law is concerned. He did not use public funds for his issue or do anything else against the law as far as being Gov. is concerned. It really has put a kink in the works of the good ol' boys asking for him to step down....

  • Sun Jul 05, 2009 4:30 pm Agree: 1   Disagree: 0

    believer,

    "prophet, your post on sexual sin and it's impact on the family, marriages, the Church and our nation is all too true and yet it's frustrating that so many in leadership roles, to include Christians refuse to take steps to prevent it in their own lives such as having accountability partners who have the courage to ask them the tough questions."

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Amen. I am a person who struggled with sexual sin for many many years. Your words are truth. I have surrounded myself with a number of strong Christian brothers, including my own pastor, who are my accountability. I thank God for them. Anyone who tries to overcome an addiction like that on their own is looking to fail. We need God and each other to make it.

  • Sun Jul 05, 2009 2:38 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    zooch, while I agree a leader should be disqualified from a ministry leadership role for a time, say until that leader gets the help he needs in dealing with the sin that led to his fall, I'm not sure that after a season of time he might not be considered to return to the ministry.

  • Sun Jul 05, 2009 2:30 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    I do live in a glass house, not sure about everyone else. Status and stature do not insulate us from our human side.
    When it comes to Politics - "politics is the last resort of a scoundrel" - W.H Churchill.
    I guess in southeast asia, we have minimal expectations of the politicians.

  • Sun Jul 05, 2009 2:21 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    Many of the posts on this subject have been very honest. I am proud to be part of a group of people(fellow Christians) like you (believer, prophet, tpique1, phileo, zooch & DanielPaul to name a few) who were willing to address such a sad topic with biblical clarity, honesty & forgiveness. Like all of you, I pray for Gov.Sanford and his family. I want to believe his repentance is real but time will tell.

    To Zooch,
    Like you, I have had a pastor that fell into sexual sin. While he didn't stay as a pastor, nobody was sure about his repentance as he & his wife divorced. Its hard to imagine having 3 pastors do this. Congradulations as you sound like you have weathered these tragic circumstances with the strength & grace that God has given you.

  • Sun Jul 05, 2009 7:33 am Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    prophet, your post on sexual sin and it's impact on the family, marriages, the Church and our nation is all too true and yet it's frustrating that so many in leadership roles, to include Christians refuse to take steps to prevent it in their own lives such as having accountability partners who have the courage to ask them the tough questions.

  • Sun Jul 05, 2009 2:28 am Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    Very dangerous to equate a political party to the Gospel!

    www.plea4help.com

  • Sun Jul 05, 2009 12:26 am Agree: 1   Disagree: 0

    I would say that sexual sin is THE biggest destroyer of families, individuals, ministries, and careers. It is a silent, secret sin that eats at the soul. Don't take that first taste, but, as the Bible says, flee every appearance of evil...especially that of a sexual nature.

  • rj78 »
    Fri Jul 03, 2009 10:36 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    How to tell if you married the right woman-

    1) she has not taken fertility drugs, had a hundred kids, bossed you around and insulted you on camera, ignored you for years while chasing her eight little faces around and wondered why the marriage has not worked

    2) she has not told intimate family secrets, insulted men, told stories about her underwear and done the robot while chanting "what about me, what about me" in front of millions of people

    3) she has not read any book in the "Every Man's Marriage" Series

    4) she has never read "I Kissed Dating Goodbye"

    5) she has always watched your Clint Eastwood dvds with you

    Seriously, guys, when God brings a woman into your life, treat her like gold. Besides Jesus, she is God's greatest gift to you.

  • Fri Jul 03, 2009 10:18 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    That's why you never put your faith in politicians. They will always let you down. Some treat these men like they are "saviors"...whether it be GOP or Democrats. Obama has been called "God", Messiah, and a "light bearer", and treated like the savior of the world. Mr Sanford was supposed to be in he running for President.

    I will never put my faith or hope in the GOP, Democratic Party or any other man ordained system.

    My faith remains in Christ.

  • Fri Jul 03, 2009 10:02 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    If you sin and repent and turn from your sin, God and man do forgive you, but!! YOU HAVE DISQUALIFIED YOURSELF, from the office, the job, the church and the pulpit, show the works of repentance and stand down instead of continuing to shame your church, family, company or whatever else. You may be a great leader, preacher, Pastor or whatever but do not insult God or the church by inferring that you are so important and your talents so special that God cannot find another to fill your shoes.
    The thief on the cross was forgiven instantly but he never got off the cross

  • Fri Jul 03, 2009 10:00 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    After have gone through the modern church from the 60 to 2009, I feel that as Christians we are more and more confused by the political and business worlds that we move in and no longer by the world of the Kingdom of God , we are people of grace and mercy people of forgiveness and we do forgive, I have had three of my own spiritual leaders fall into sin, and to my own shame they just got up, dusted themselves off, and carried on as if nothing had happened and all of them brought shame to the church, loss of young people and loss of reputation.

  • Fri Jul 03, 2009 10:00 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 2

    Public figures, as well as Pastors should always be held to the standards listed in 1 Timothy 3. Once you fall from those standards you should be forced to resign your leadership position, and begin the process of healing and forgiveness.

    I was divorced 15 years ago and I still consider myself unqualified for any sort of public office, or leadership role within the church. Perhaps it is the pride and ego of these officials that fails to help them recognize the damage their moral failings are doing to the offices in which they hold.

    And those that are attacking Colson obviously are looking for any excuse to attack the man. Colson was speaking in general about the situation of ALL public figures caught in moral failure, and was not taking cheap shots at Sanford. And because of Colson's past, I think he is uniquely qualified to render an opinion on what was going through Sanford's head to cause this tragedy.

  • Fri Jul 03, 2009 9:59 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    "....but also must remember that a person who is not loyal to his own body (wife) and children will not be loyal to the electorate. So, they must be forced out of politics for ever."

    Actually, Sanford has done a good job representing the interests of those of us who elected him. We elected him to stand up the the good ol' boys watch out for the rest of us. He has. I've been in SC since the mid 70's. We've had way worse than Sanford for sure.

  • Fri Jul 03, 2009 9:57 pm Agree: 1   Disagree: 0

    "group at C Street that they cannot find a spokesperson "

    Groups like this have no use for the media....

  • Fri Jul 03, 2009 8:57 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    So I guess when the associated press says of the group at C Street that they cannot find a spokesperson or representative and had to submit requests through members of the community (I am supposing one of the legislators who lives there)that is because Americans have no right to know who is trying to influence our legislators. The building is reportedly owned by Youth With A Mission (YWAM)D.C. but they won't answer email from the media. AA, Hmm, does this mean all the residents are trying to kick some habit? YWAM,way back when I was 19 and went on one of their outreaches, was and perhaps still is an evangelical organization which seeks to impact the world by targeting decision makers. No harm no foul there. But citizens have a right to know who is trying to impact legislators and for what purpose. If a major corporation lobbyist was renting rooms to legislators, the voters might want to know how much of a deal the elected reps are getting. Elected officials lose some of their privacy because they must be accountable. A fact Ensign and Sandford forgot. BTW, Gov. Palin just announced she is resigning as Governor of Alaska effective later in July. I can't wait for her show on FOX in preparation for her run to the White House.

  • Fri Jul 03, 2009 7:45 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    A.S.Mathew
    You said have the following....
    "As believers in Christ, we must have the attitude of
    Christ in forgiving others."

    "....but also must remember that a person who is not loyal to his own body (wife) and children will not be loyal to the electorate. So, they must be forced out of politics for ever."

    Sounds like a teaspoon of punishment mixed with a tablespoon of forgiveness.

    But realistically, if we accept that we are sinners and are truly sorry for our sins, then we get the full unconditional pardon.

    And it would really help if we lived accordingly too.

  • Fri Jul 03, 2009 6:03 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    As believers in Christ, we must have the attitude of
    Christ in forgiving others. But the long list of
    moral violations perpetrated by the political leaders
    is causing alarm to everybody. We must forgive them,
    but also must remember that a person who is not loyal to
    his own body (wife) and children will not be loyal
    to the electorate. So, they must be forced out of politics for ever.

  • Fri Jul 03, 2009 3:56 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    To steveh20,

    I don't think Colson was referring only to the physical attributes of Sanford's family. He probably knows them or has at least heard of them. Maybe he knows people who know his wife or kids. I would not think that just because Colson says his wife is beautiful that he's only talking about her physical attributes. A godly wife can bve average looking but be very beautiful to someone who knows her.
    I have known a few Christian men with good families that strayed. My 1st reaction was, "What were they thinking?" or "Why did they do this when they had a great family?". I think its normal to think these things, but DanielPaul brings up a great point. Yes, we're bewildered why they would act this way but, in the long run, we know why they would....they were tempted & gave into sin. The grass is always greener on the other side. This is the destructive power of sin.

    To Rhi Bran,
    The C Street Christian ministry is not secretive anymore than your group of friends would be. They are a great organization that helps support people in their chosen business field to live out their faith. Would you call AA a failure because not all of the people went 'dry'?
    Yes, churches & para-church organizations (like C Street Ministries) are very effective in their missions. They're just not 100% effective. No organization that I know of is. And "C Street" is a volunteer organization. Please show mke any secular organizations that are this concerned about a person's behavior & life.

  • Fri Jul 03, 2009 2:52 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    It is interesting to note that a news service reports both Senator Ensign and Sanford sought help from their peers at the secretive C Street "Christian" ministry that provides a group of elected officials with a place to live and practice their religious beliefs while doing the publics business. Sanford mentioned the group in one of his many news conferences. Apparently churches are not sufficient and our national leaders who need a secure retreat to get away from the eyes of their constituents. One wonders if they wrestle with the moral issues like putting the interests of their largest contributors ahead of the American people. If their counseling of Ensign and Sanford are an indication, it is easier to get politicians to pray than it is to get them to live their professed beliefs.

  • Fri Jul 03, 2009 1:01 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    As much as I respect Chuck Colson I'm wondering if he is having a senior moment since it appears he's forgotten that in many people's minds he had it all when he was a part of Watergate. But as DP said giving into temptation has been with us since Adam and Eve and chances are it's not going to change anytime soon. But if I were a betting man, I'd bet Gov. Snaford had no accountability partners who loved him enough to ask him the tough questions.

  • Fri Jul 03, 2009 12:11 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    I find it quite odd that Charles should feel that having a "beautiful" wife is part of having it all. By that I mean, who knows what a person is like behind closed doors, take having a healthy sex life, is he implying that the more beautiful a woman is the more a couples sex life will be better, come on, we all know thats not true. Same goes for "beautiful " family, whats beautiful? Did they all have straight teeth, where they all perfect at school? And as for high public office etc..it would seem, so what, Charles seems to think they should be enough, but they obviously where not, maybe at the end of the day they arn't really. I'm suprised at Charles, the reasons he puts forward for not taking this course of action are quite superficial and seem to be based only on apperances.

    S

  • Fri Jul 03, 2009 11:25 am Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    "I am bewildered," Colson said during this daily radio broadcast. "Sanford had it all-a beautiful wife and family, high public office, and he was a viable candidate, perhaps, for President. Why would he throw it all away?"

    Adam and Eve had far more and threw it all away. All to often we look at others failings as great in order to lessen our own in our own eyes. Maybe if mankind faced the real answer to the question "why would he trow it all away?" then our world would begin to get better.

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