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MTV to Air Bisexual Dating Reality Series

By Nathan Black|Christian Post Reporter

MTV has given the green light for a new reality show starring a bisexual woman dubbed "the Madonna of MySpace."

"A Shot at Love with Tila Tequila" is another dating competition series but with a controversial twist. The competitors vying for internet sensation Tila Tequila, a 25-year-old entertainer whose real last name is Nguyen, are 16 straight men and 16 lesbians. The 32 “suitors” will live in Tila's house and compete to impress her as the competition narrows each week.

The bisexual dating show is a first for a network that doesn't specifically target the LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender) crowd. It's slated to premiere Oct. 9.

"The show is a roller-coaster ride of drama, conflict and emotion, busting stereotypes and challenging the norm," said MTV executive Tony DiSanto, according to Reuters.

MTV is one of the most watched networks by teens and its staggering levels sexual imagery, foul language and violence already have parents and evangelicals concerned.

Warning that a whole generation of young people will be lost to MTV culture, the Rev. Dr. Samuel Kobia, general secretary of the World Council of Churches, commented earlier this year that "the majority of the youth are biblically illiterate but well-informed about the latest MTV programs," even in countries where the majority of the population is Christian.

But the addition of a bisexual reality series has raised more concern that it might create confusion in the area of sex and relationships.

"Men and women are made in the image of God, and our masculinity and femininity reflect something of his wonder and glory. So it's no wonder the enemy attacks this area and works to create confusion, brokenness and lust," said Jeff Johnston, gender issues analyst for Focus on the Family, according to Citizen Link, a publication of the pro-family organization.

"It's sad that MTV is cooperating so readily with our adversary. Especially since they just learned that what makes young men and women happy is time with their families and with God, not sexual brokenness and confusion," added Johnston, alluding to a recent survey by The Associated Press and MTV that revealed spending time with family makes America's young people happiest.

The upcoming TV series centers around a woman who is said to be the most popular girl in the history of MySpace with some 2 million “friends” and counting. Tila Tequila built her celebrity status "from the ground up on MySpace," fan by fan, as Time magazine reported. With racy photos and videos, Tila merchandise and singles, Tequila says her online persona as a singer-model-actress-blogger is her profession.

"Tila Tequila made a name for herself by doing things her way, captivating legions of fans online, both men and women," said MTV executive Tony DiSanto, according to AP. "Now she is taking that attitude and sex appeal to her own TV series where she is looking for a mate ... by again, captivating a group of both men and women."

"A Shot at Love with Tila Tequila" comes months after ABC casted Rebecca Romijn as a transwoman on its popular television show Ugly Betty. The transgender character, Alex "Alexis" Meade, is said to be the first on prime-time network television.

Dr. Robert Gagnon, associate professor of New Testament at Pittsburgh Theological Seminary, has raised concerns that the media, after trying to normalize the gay lifestyle, is now trying to do the same with the transgender existence.

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  • Mon Dec 24, 2007 6:28 am Agree: 4   Disagree: 1

    YAWN! As reality shows go, I'd rather have this than "The Swan" or "Dr. 90210" showing people carving up their bodies to achieve traditional beauty. And it's definitely preferable to "The Bachelor" becuase it's not like here they're trying to makje you believe that this is really a love that will last forever. And don't even get me started on the mere title, "Wife Swap".

    A lot of viewers didn't even believe she was really bisexual.

  • Wed Nov 28, 2007 5:20 pm Agree: 8   Disagree: 1

    Why thank you! Most people laugh when I say I'm a Buddhist. Such is life when your white, middle class, and not in the Middle East. Most just think it's a joke. That's why I don't mind Christians. The Buddha tells everyone to respect other's religions. We are all human and share the same desires for love and happiness. Whether you trust in God or the Buddha's teachings makes no difference. It's the love and kindness you show toward people everyday.

  • Wed Nov 28, 2007 12:32 pm Agree: 8   Disagree: 1

    God is not sexual. He/She transcends gender, there fore transcending sexuality. But Buddhism promotes peace. It is a good religion.

  • Wed Nov 28, 2007 3:18 am Agree: 13   Disagree: 3

    When I first heard of the idea I thought it was stupid. But being the open minded devout Buddhist I am I accepted her search for love. It may be misguided trying to find it on national television and making people compete for her love and affection but it's still what she wants to do. John said MTV promoting sodomy? They have made out on the show. Some touching but no sex or anything. Just what young people always do. Why do we still live in a world where people still judge and hate others based on their sexual orientation? How does their sexual orientation affect you? If it's against your religion then they will get there's someday. Until then LEAVE THEM ALONE! They want happiness just like you and it's not something that they decided upon. It's something they were born with. We have more and more evidence every day that suggests it's not just decision its a hormone imbalance. And if that's true then they are children of God as well which means God loves them.

    God is kinda bisexual, he loves Men AND Women.

  • Tue Nov 27, 2007 7:24 pm Agree: 7   Disagree: 23

    The media basically perverts Christianity, so you bloggers, militant against Christianity, are becoming as racist as the alleged "homophobes." Christianity encourages love, not hate. Most of you are hypocrites. You bash the church, but you are worse. You are sceptical, cynical, and lets not forget, bigoted. You are racist, so you take it out on a target that won't retaliate against hatred. You mock Christianity, but you treat your fellow humans with extreme prejudice. The Church is not a scapegoat for people like you who are racist but refuse to admit it. You do not care about gays. You just want to vent your bigotry in a socially acceptable way. You disgust me.

  • Tue Nov 27, 2007 7:16 pm Agree: 3   Disagree: 6

    look, you are both very militant. I have been a Catholic my whole life. Everyone sins. It is the human way. But the article has a point. We shouldn't incourage one of the seven deadly sins, and don't knock the bible, and you can't take opinions from South Park, although it is a good show.

  • Thu Nov 22, 2007 11:26 am Agree: 8   Disagree: 2

    MistaJin, i couldn't disagree with you more. The ones causing disunity and disharmony are the homophobes, like yourself, who unfortunately seem to the outside world to be the face of modern day christianity. You compare people to sockets and outlets, but the fact of the matter is that we are more than that. The people who live the lifestyle that you so wantonly insult create between themselves quite a spark, otherwise they wouldn't live that way!! What you're doing is saying there's no more to a person than their plumbing. Don't you see that with your post you not only de-value the gays and lesbians, as is your intent, but also the very people you claim to represent? Is this how Christians view the world? No. Not the ones who follow the law that Jesus laid down: Love thy neighbor as thyself. Remember what he was asked in response to this. Who, then, are our neighbors? Surely not the Romans, right? Surely not homosexuals? Not even the ones who are in our families and live in our neighborhoods, and are right now having their teeth shoved down their throats because people listen to those like you?

  • Wed Nov 21, 2007 12:30 pm Agree: 18   Disagree: 14

    Being 13 years old, I watch MTV all the time and so should everyone else. MTV is at least something interesting then
    a bible. MTV is much more preferable to the youth today.

    "I bet God might be a little bi-curious himself!" -Butters Stotch from the best show ever "South Park"

  • Thu Nov 15, 2007 4:32 pm Agree: 10   Disagree: 18

    Nice name. If I was your mommy, I'd wash your mouth out with soap. And if your grown up, must have been some great parenting to produce a charm like you.

  • Tue Oct 16, 2007 4:46 pm Agree: 15   Disagree: 11

    amym14535: What is a "hypocrit"? "To make it short and sweet" , learn how to spell.

  • Mon Oct 15, 2007 6:03 am Agree: 15   Disagree: 5

    Some people live in a town where it is socially "acceptable" to be gay/bi/lesbian, whatever you wanna call it. The town I live in it is more "acceptable " to be a pediphile or theif. Being gay or straight isnt about sex. As a Christian the way I was brought up to love a person before even considering sex. And from what any other Christian I have talked to says, they were brought up the same way. I would rather love someone of the same sex, than to be miserable for the rest of my life. Aren't we supposed to be happy? Aren't we supposed to love one another, and not put people down for the way they are living their lives as long as we aren't hurting anyone. I have children and they haven't been "influenced" by my lifestyle at all. Here is a quote I found "People are dying in a war based on inaccurate facts. Our government is corrupt. Gas prices keep going up. Homes are being destroyed in natural disasters. Children are being abused by their families. The local pediphile may be a priest. Poverty still exists even though we are the RICHEST nation in the WORLD! And yet another Bush could still become our President! ALL THIS AND YOU'RE STILL GOING TO FOCUS ON MY SEXUALITY????

  • Fri Oct 12, 2007 4:53 pm Agree: 22   Disagree: 19

    MTV promoting sodomy? Somehow that is no surprise.

  • Thu Oct 11, 2007 10:43 am Agree: 9   Disagree: 4

    lisaasd =) You've made my day. I agree 100% with what you posted on Oct.1, 1007. Bravo!!

    P.S. Tila Tequila deserves love ((as does everyone)) ... love is love regardless of who it's between.

  • Thu Oct 11, 2007 10:39 am Agree: 18   Disagree: 5

    I'm very disappointed in every single person who calls themselves a "Christian", who JUDGE homosexuals, bisexuals ... or any other . Who are you to JUDGE anyone?? Honestly. God tells you to LOVE they neighbor. Ha!! I don't see ANY of you doing that. My Aunt is a lesbian, && has been as long as I can remember. I've been saved, && I openly admit that I've had my fair share of bisexual/bicurious thoughts. I've tried saying that it just isn't me ... but it's natural. EVERYONE has thoughts, you can't help it. You're born that way. So all you people claiming to be Christian, who are all out here pointing fingers ... just shut your mouth. You're not making anyone listen to you. You're just proving that you're not "Christian". Stop being a hypocrit && grow up.

  • Wed Oct 03, 2007 9:35 am Agree: 7   Disagree: 30

    Please bare with me while I put together all my posts, I just want to clarify my point in the smallest form I can.
    Homosexuality is a choice. Yes, it was an abomination to God as written under the old covenant. The new testament teaches that the old covenant couldn’t save anyone. Homosexuality was among many many sins of all men and women which under the old covenant concluded that all of have fallen short. None was righteous, without the shed of blood of bulls and goats by the High priest. This had to take place every year.
    Under the new covenant, we all have a welcome to FULL PARDON in putting our trust in the One sacrifice once for all. That of course being Jesus Christ crucified. Done and done. A new covenant is established now with man, that all sins are washed away and we are justified daily, never having to revisit our guilt. Now in this new covenant there is no more condemnation for them that are in Christ Jesus. That is the good news of the gospel.
    In talking to this generation, I say to parents, train up your children so they won’t be lost and confused and that you won’t be judged by God in the end. Young men and women, come out and be separate from the pattern of the world and it’s lusts, put your trust in Jesus first and He will direct your path. Now, in speaking to them that are deep in sin. Jesus loves you. Hell was not created for man, but for the devil and his angels. Eternal Life is His reward for turning away from a life that ends only in Death. So in conclusion, it’s no great cost to give up our lusts in comparison to the glory ahead that will never end. Not through religion, but relationship with God through Jesus Christ given freely to all mankind. Come to Jesus as you, are and learn from Him. His Spirit will do the rest as you trust Him.

  • Wed Oct 03, 2007 12:31 am Agree: 3   Disagree: 15

    This is not a tough subject. Read the first chapters of the Word of God..
    God created this world and for what purpose? For man, created in His Image. God made man to have fellowship with. But God knew Man needed companionship so He intentionally created a suitable partner to share life with and be His helper. He made them male and Female with distinguished features so that they could come together intimately like pieces of a puzzle.
    That was God’s workmanship for all of us.

    You want to know why it’s an abomination to God? Because, when men and women choose to abandon the union God created for them, In God’s eyes, that is hatred. It is no different than saying that the opposite sex is not good enough for you. If God wanted Man to be with a man, then why did He waste His time? Why is this so hard to grasp???
    Take this simple wall outlet principle: Do two plugs put together create continuity? Likewise, do two outlets put together create continuity? No…. The answer will always be no. Not because I hate the plug and the outlets, but because they were made uniquely for joining to the other part to do what??? To create continuity with electricity.
    God does not hate homosexuals, but what they have done, was broken the unity that God created from the beginning of time and it will eventually destroy it. Look at Sodom and Gomorrah. They are standing examples of what happens when cities abandon God. First of all, They were full of every kind of wickedness, but then the other trait was that all the men were gay. All of them. Can you believe that? After reading that story in Genesis, I can only conclude that when men and women abandon each other for same sex unions, that is the result of our final depravity and that we need God more than ever to come back into our nation.
    This is what I expected from the “Christian Post”. Sorry if it sounds offensive. I don’t mean harm.

  • Wed Oct 03, 2007 12:08 am Agree: 4   Disagree: 17

    Oh wait a minute!! That statement, “Sexual orientation is pre-disposed before you are born!!!” ???
    Lisaasd, I’m not attacking you, but that ideology doesn’t hold water. Gay/straight/bi is a choice…. If you want to talk about genetics, we all are born with the capacity/genetics to murder, to steal, to hate, to lie, and lastly to be perverted. That’s in every single human being. But we have a choice. In Christ we are free from our sinful nature, if we’ll walk by the spirit and not the flesh.
    The Word of God is not at fault here. Man misrepresenting it is at fault. Judgement is wrong, yes. But preaching to the lost people is every man of God’s obligation. If we don’t reach out to people with the Word of God, then who will??? Shall we give up on them and say, let em go to hell?? No, by no means!!! God gave man His Word and said, teach this to everyone and teach them how to walk in it. Look at how long this Word has endured through time in man’s hands. Regardless of conspiracy theories. I believe God’s Word is true. Homosexuals ARE NOT UNREACHABLE!!! But we have to Love them Like God loved us. Anyone who does NOT love them, is not from God. Case closed….

  • Tue Oct 02, 2007 7:37 am Agree: 4   Disagree: 3

    Well MistaJinxXx is right. The way this story is presented, it seems like it is just talking down about the issue and not reaching out or trying to help resolve the issue. But it brings the questionof whether or not reaching out will actually help and whether or not these teens need someone to reach out to them and if it will help them because it may help some people but not all.

  • Tue Oct 02, 2007 1:46 am Agree: 4   Disagree: 5

    For us christians today, go to Revelation chapter 22:10-15 and read that and meditate on it. I will only emphasize the fact that it says “Let” them who do wrong or right to “continue” to do so because Jesus will return and reward “everyone” according to what they have done. Whether anyone approves or disapproves, we are only called to spread the good news of the Gospel to a sinful world and edify those who are IN the body of Christ.

    Brothers and sisters, according to 2 timothy chapter 3 verses 1-5 in comparison to our society today they are a perfect match. That is all this newsletter has to say. But for a title such as “Christian Post”, shouldn’t the article have steered it’s reader to a conclusion of “How do we reach out to these young people, like Tila, and our brothers and sisters in the gay community?” I would think that a Christian Post should at least conclude with a Godly resolve because that is what it represents. Not just broadcast other peoples business like the world already does. You’re just pushing people away that we need to save!

  • Mon Oct 01, 2007 7:44 pm Agree: 4   Disagree: 2

    Thank you lisaasd. And I have one final comment about this. Why is homosexuality and perversion always about sex??? Every time this controversy is seen it is not about the love its about the acts of love. Why does this topic seem to revolve around sex??? Are we just obsessed with the subject??? Who are you to presume to say it is not love??? Who can tell a person they do not feel love??? Are they presuming to know another person's mind??? Are they presuming to be more than human??? It can not be said that it is not love. There is no proof that it isn't but there are two people who say that it is. And as lisaasd said this is a dead subject yet people continue to bring it back. Please just leave it be where it belongs. Out of sight and out of mind.

  • Mon Oct 01, 2007 4:49 pm Agree: 26   Disagree: 6

    Sexual orientation is pre-disposed before you are born!!! You did choose to be male or female, you did not choose your skin color, you did not choose any physical characteristics of yourself. Being gay/straight/bi is one of those. Anyone else who says otherwise is ignorant and needs shows like this to show them otherwise.

    I am extremely happy with MTV and Tila Tequila. They are both doing the right thing. The world is changing, peoples opinions are changing, as they should. Prejudice is prejudice. Let it go people.

  • Mon Oct 01, 2007 2:38 pm Agree: 3   Disagree: 1

    daman265:
    Ok there is now a problem w/being both bi, gay or whatever and a christian??? And who gave you the power to decide this??? Well whatever believe what you will but that would not make it true.

  • Mon Oct 01, 2007 1:28 pm Agree: 2   Disagree: 13

    To be gay is one thing but to be gay and be a christian is wrong MY GOD dont makes mistakes and he made man for women and women for man and for all the gay people saying that MY GOD thinks its ok obvious you dont know your word please read: ROMANS CHAPTER 1: 26 Therefore God gives them over to dishonorable passions. For their females, besides, alter the natural use into that which is beside nature. 27 Likewise also the males, besides, leaving the natural use of the female, were inflamed in their craving for one another, males with males effecting indecency, and getting back in themselves the retribution of their deception which must be. 28 And according as they do not test God, to have Him in recognition, God gives them over to a disqualified mind, to do that which is not befitting, 29 filled with all injustice, wickedness, evil, greed, distended with envy, murder, strife, guile, depravity, whisperers, 30 vilifiers, detesters of God, outragers, proud, ostentatious, inventors of evil things, stubborn to parents, 31 unintelligent, perfidious, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful: 32 those who, recognizing the just statute of God, that those committing such things are deserving of death, not only are doing them, but are endorsing, also, those who are committing them.

  • Sun Sep 30, 2007 9:29 pm Agree: 5   Disagree: 2

    narcissisticmee:
    pardon me for this but im not tryin to hurt ne1 here. im bi myself and have no problem w/it except for my family who i doubt will accept me. if it ever got out tht i was well i would be disowned among other things because my dads family is Catholic and my mama's is Baptist so i no wat its like to worry a/b your world being destroyed but i do have accepting friends and exfriends who hate me for bein me...the only problem in this world is those who are bigots and hate and fear wat they cannot begin to perceive and the sheep that will blindly follow them wherever they go. and once again narcissisticmee forgive me but i have read many of these supposed passages which are against homosexuality and i've just found its how people interpret it and how they feel a/b it. my advice ignore people who have no idea wat they r talkin a/b and get on w/ ur life...

  • Sun Sep 30, 2007 7:29 pm Agree: 4   Disagree: 3

    Wow ok looking at this i see all the sides of the story. yet i can't understand why it is so wrong
    i noticed that sum1 says that the bible says that homosexuality is a sin and yet i've read this passage and noticed no that is not wat is said rather wat was interpreted. b4 u read the bible u r supposed 2 pray 4 the understanding of God's word but wat people don't realize is that over time their interpretation can change if they just go back and look over it again. and drawing on other posts yes the bible does preach acceptance and not 2 judge and yet people continue to judge because they choose 2 ignore wat the bible says. Really it is one individuals business who they love and no one elses but people continue 2 stick their noses where they don't belong. if u don't like this then ignore it. God would not create sum1 to b homosexual gay bi or w/e else w/o a reason. people forget God has a purpose 4 us all and a reason 4 our creation and He did not mess up when He created u. He created u just how He wanted u. it is preached that it is a choice to b homosexual but it isn't. it is who a person is and its a part of them and that can never change. also to draw off one more post...many teens who r homosexual or otherwise r religious but has ne1 ever considered how much it hurts them to no that God has accepted them and forgiven them but the people they call their friends hate them for who they truly are? this is why these teens kill themselves they r alone and have no1 left to help them or to comfort them when they need it the most because humans are too cold and hateful to realize the extent of their actions and wat may happen if they push sumthin too far. this is why the world is so full of hatred and murder and death. humans are selfish hateful and sinful creatures and i admit i am a sinner as well but the thing is we as humans do not step bak and look at our actions and the consequences and make life harder for other people and do not show the acceptance we preach. we are all in a way sinners and hypocrites and those who deny this are stuck in a fantasy world where everything is perfect and wat they consider wrong should be shunned. so please people stop dwelling on insignificant problems it doesn't solve nething. and one last thought...teens and other people are not changed and are not influenced to become gay or w/e. its part of who they are so if sum1 comes out its because they feel they can face the world now and not because they have changed because they are still the same person you've always known its just now u no wats been hurting them and paining them to deal w/as your friend because of your views and hatred.

  • Sun Sep 30, 2007 4:46 pm Agree: 10   Disagree: 4

    http://blog.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.view&friendID=41736&blogID=314307815

    that would be tila tequila's response. I advice you read it.

    Being a homosexuual myself, I and strongly offended by this garbage.
    This article is just one of hundreds of examples of how exclusive the christian religion is.
    They speak of acceptence, forgiveness, and love, but do not practice it.

  • Sat Sep 29, 2007 10:59 pm Agree: 17   Disagree: 3

    Who are you people to judge, when the book itself says "Judge not or you too will be Judged"? That's all the Church has been doing lately, is judging people on their sexual orientation. Who are you to judge? Are you God? No, you are a HUMAN. A part of the creation. You're no where NEAR being Him. I'm not saying that you're not allowed an opinion. So you're against the LBGT community. That's fine, but to say that "that's not what we should be teaching our children" is a whole other story. It's not your job to tell people what to and what not to teach their children. A comment earlier stated that you don't talk about the women who swing from poles, instead you're worried about the girls who kiss other girls, boys who kiss other boys, or whatever the case may be. I believe God, but I refuse to go to church because of the hypocrisy they have tried to teach me! "Being gay is SO wrong!" but yet you teach me not to judge others? The bible says that God loves everyone. Remember the old sunday school song that church would teach kids?

    Jesus loves the little children
    All the children of the world
    Black and yellow, red and white
    They're all precious in His sight
    Jesus loves the little children of the world

    Whether you're rich or whether you're poor
    It matters not to Him
    He remembers where you're going
    Not where you've been

    Jesus loves the little children
    All the children of the world
    Black and yellow, red and white
    They're all precious in His sight
    Jesus loves the little children of the world

    If your heart is troubled
    Don't worry, don't you fret
    He knows that you have heard His call
    And he won't forget

    Jesus loves the little children
    All the children of the world
    Black and yellow, red and white
    They're all precious in His sight
    Jesus loves the little children of the world

    All around the world tonight
    His children rest assured
    That He will watch and He will keep us
    Safe and secure

    Jesus loves the little children
    All the children of the world
    Black and yellow, red and white
    They're all precious in His sight
    Jesus loves the little children of the world

    Instead of JUDGING and telling these people how wrong they are for being lesbian, gay, or whatever.. Why not embrace them and love them for WHO THEY ARE? Not what they do!

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  • Sat Sep 29, 2007 5:34 pm Agree: 3   Disagree: 3

    Who really knows the mind of God? Everybody professes to know and understand God and yet we are divided into many denominations in society. Take a step back from what you see in your own church and look at the church body as a whole in the United States. The big picture. Then, put yourselves in the shoes of all these people being born into this world and growing up bombarded by this and that view of different doctrinal values. They are confused. And we, the church dare blame them? Come on, brothers, we're smarter than this....When I viewed this article...It was redundant. It's like someone finally turned on the tube and noticed we have some immorality in the works. Then take for instance what mirella6 commented on how times have changed. That is a very profound point! We have to come out of the old way of handling things and find out how to outreach these precious people of THIS age. Things aren’t like they were in years past and they don’t look to be getting any better.daily ever since. I haven't memorized alot, but I know what it says. The reason I read it so much is because thats the only way my mind will retain its value to keep my life on the right path There was a time that i was wounded by the church , but God picked me back up and now I’m focused on outreach. I'm not living in the past. God dealt with those pastors, but I forgave them and moved on. There are more important issues ahead.
    This talk of MTV raising our youth is a pathetic defeat. MTV does NOT raise our children!!! Men and Women who love their kids will devote their lives in teaching their children about life and morals and what happens in conflicts and when justice fails. Parents are obligated by God to be the trainers of Kingdom kids. I have 3 kids of my own and I have exposed to them all the sins of my past and how it almost destroyed my life. Plus I have shared with them all that God has done since I was delivered. But most important is I have exposed them to a church with a strong youth outreach in it. They have kids to relate to and find common place in the house of God and it has evolved since my time. Our Kids Praise God stronger than we do!! They get serious and they jam! We stand there and clap our hands while we try to follow the words on the over head to new songs we aren’t familiar with… I meant that as a joke. But there you have it.
    There is no gain to plastering the obvious about what sinners are doing in the world. And I know everyone who’s reading this knows as well as I do, that there are things that the media doesn’t expose because it is way too ugly to face. Like abortions. Has that been stopped yet? That’s something of more value that we should be working on to resolve.
    Im on myspace under Mistajinxxx2010. My statement of faith is the great commission. My outreach is to the ungodly. I’m a voice in the streets asking people how long will they hold on to foolish ways and reject knowledge that can save their life.

  • Sat Sep 29, 2007 4:30 pm Agree: 3   Disagree: 1

    I believe that living in the 21st century we can watch whatever we like on tv - i think teenagers from my generation grow up fast enough and their sexuality cannot be confused that easily..Actually no one can judge nobody about anything - God only can do this but not the people who are said to be His representatives.
    Times change,so do people.And since it is not immoral to be bisexual or gay,what is the problem for an ''online celebrity'' to tease her fans?Of course,if one is bisexual or gay,it isnt necessary for others to know that,but the world needs something different from reading books and working sometimes...I say we all have to be tolerant if we are good Christians

  • Sat Sep 29, 2007 1:42 pm Agree: 14   Disagree: 32

    I just wanted to say "Praise the Lord." I think it is good that this topic was brought up; because if we don't do something about situations like this now, our children are going to be living in a confused and twisted world. This is definately something Chrstians will have to pray about and ask God to help us with. Don't forget to pray for those who are responsible for this issue in the first place. You know who I'm talkin' about... God Bless.

  • Sat Sep 29, 2007 10:53 am Agree: 22   Disagree: 11

    After reading many of the comments it is really sad to see that so many people don't understand who God is and what he wishes of us. God is about love but in the bible who also speaks of judgment and about what he will judge. Just being a good person does not save you from judgment. As Christians we must also live holy lives. Granted it is not us who can say who is judged and who isn't but if you look at the book of Isaiah in the bible. Isaiah was probably the most holy and righteous man to walk the earth during his time. He tried so much to follow everything that God told him to do, yet when he saw his sins he was overwhelmed. By seeing God's holiness he saw that he was not worthy of any thing he received from God. What the bible teaches is that we are so full of sin that we all deserve to be stricken from this earth. Yet we haven't. Even the most righteous Christian doesn't deserve to enter heaven. But through Christ it is possible. The bible teaches this. But just saying that you believe in Christ is not enough. In the book of James it says that faith is not faith without deeds. We have to live our lives accordingly to reflect the faith that we say we have. If you talk the talk then you should walk the walk. We are still sinners though, and we still commit sins. But by living our lives to the fullest to serve God and through his grace we are redeemed. Now what does that have to do with being concerned about homosexuality? Jesus gave to us what we hold as our great commission, to go and make disciples of all the nations and to teach them to obey what he has taught us. We don't condemn the person that is committing the sin just the sin. If a person is sick you don't cast them into fire you try to cure the illness. The bible explicitly in black and white says to us that homosexuality is a sin. We as Christians are concerned where those individuals will be going after they die. Is that not love in it self to be worried about another individual and the things that will happen to them? So we carry that love that Jesus taught us. When you accept Christ you have to give up the sinful ways that you had. Confessing that you believe in Christ then going about and purposely committing a sin that you know is a sin is like telling a lie. Believing in Christ is not a get out of jail free card. Where you just throw down the card and you can keep playing as you did before. Jesus said that you must take up his cross and follow him. I don’t remember Jesus getting divorced, taking drugs with his friends, taking part in immoral sex and so on. I am concerned about the people who have the misconception that God is just a nice old man that gives you an excuse to do things and not have to worry about the consequences. I pray for all those who entered this article and read it from the myspace page and I hope that you will be able to see the true God that we as Christians have come to love.

  • Sat Sep 29, 2007 5:36 am Agree: 9   Disagree: 10

    All Christians should focus their eyes on their own goal, which is to be the living example to the world of Christlike character. Why are "christians" surprised about where our society is headed that they have to point it out. All you have to do is read the book of Romans in the New Testament. You guys act like you forgot where we came from.
    Without the Blood from the cross, where do we all stand???? According to the Bible, we all are doomed to hell, because of the Law that couldn't save us..... But the blood of calvary paid for sins from the beginning to the end of time, thanks to Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith. We have done nothing to gain anything from God. In our state of being enemies toward God, He reached down to us in Agape Love and saved us.
    So what's Tila? What about gays? Liars? Thieves? Murderers? Idolators? whoremongers? Drunkards?........They are people who need the same Hope God gave us. Jesus said "freely I gave to you, so freely give to others." Jesus wanted us to focus on leading them to him. Take for instance what Jesus said to Nicodemus. "Man can only reproduce man, but the Spirit gives new life from heaven." We can't change our world, only God can. When we aren't making an impact in peoples lives, then it means we ourselves have a problem. "One man plants, another waters, but God makes them grow."
    Paul the apostle went from killing christians to being willing to lay his own life down for gentiles to lead them to the one true living God. In fact, Paul was stoned to death once and was ressurected to finish the course God laid for him. But Paul's harshest words went toward wickedness "inside" the church, not outside.
    Paul had a true Love for the world. Our Apostle. The leader of the church. I think we should follow Pauls example and stop harrassing the world. The world is supposed to do that to us!!! But God clearly teaches us In Matthew 5:44 "But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you"
    So in conclusion, whats going on my brothers and sisters? Are you defeated that you have to feel like you have to fight? If so, then maybe the youth aren't as biblically illiterate as the Rev. said. I believe the Youth knows the word, but just can't seem to match it with the actions around them. That's when we have failed the great commission.

  • Sat Sep 29, 2007 4:50 am Agree: 24   Disagree: 3

    Being a christian myself, I am tired of the ministers and preachers taking judgment on other people when the bible states that he who is without sin cast the first stone. You may be a minister but that doesn't mean you are in God's good book. I mean, there are a lot of people who were marked "holy" and are performing all kinds of sin, wether it be fantasizing it or acting upon it. LGBT... leave them be!!! When there are women twirling around poles and walking around in their underwear/ naked on television, no one says anything, but when tila decides she wants to find love like Flavor Flav and New York, you want to pass judgment?? Learn to forgive, learn to love unconditionally, and learn to use your LIFE and your MISTAKES to teach your congregation the righteous way because on the day of God's judgment, all of this name calling and things won't help you gain a place in the Lord's kingdom... All of this "I'm right and you'r wrong!" attitude is exactly why we have so much hate in this world. please don't think that I'm preaching this because I think I'm not a sinner.. let me be the first to say that I have sinned.. A LOT!!! BUT... I pray, I ask for His forgiveness, and I work on my sins so that I won't do them again... so can you admit your sins and stop judging the world and work on yourself?

  • Fri Sep 28, 2007 10:42 pm Agree: 4   Disagree: 2

    Look people were in America a journalist can write whatever they want as long as it doesn't infring on someone elses rights. Also I feel its a good thing to be able to read about both sides. I'm not someone that believes in supporting or condiming this life style because thats God's place not mine. Those that don't like the Christian views on this why bother to read it? You talk of Christians needing to keep their blinders on, why bother to read their articles? I mean its good that your interested in the Christian stand point but don't be offended and a hypocrit because its not what you wanted to read. I agree with what one comment says on here we're suppose to love one another and turn the other cheek, but people knowledge is power and this persons article was just informing others on the journalists opinion, like I'm sure plenty of sectular newspapers have done.

  • Fri Sep 28, 2007 10:23 pm Agree: 18   Disagree: 4

    This article is just another wonderful example of why Bible-thumpers should keep to themselves and stop bothering people who would rather live by common sense. These folks really need to just keep their blinders in their straight forward and fixed positions, and keep their narrow-minded selves and opinions in their appropriate places, such as their churches and their own homes.

  • Fri Sep 28, 2007 9:40 pm Agree: 7   Disagree: 2

    I think that the last thing that gay/lesbians/bisexuals/transgenders are with their sexuality is confused. They are perhaps the most in touch with their true feelings and urges. Brokenness would be caused by convincing yourself to be something you're not. Saying that trying to normalize the glbt community is wrong is absolutely hyprocritical to your religion. How could you want someone to feel alienated from their community...wouldn't that be a cause of confusion and brokenness? Which could lead to violence and anger.....even suicide? Or is that the ultimate goal of the Christian lifestyle? I personally don't even believe in organized religion. I believe in God...and I believe that God loves all human beings....and he makes them the person that they are for a reason. Everyone has their cross to bear...but for some it is made my difficult by a closed-minded society. Step back from your precious little mandated bibles and look in the mirror. Maybe you'll find out who you really are instead of being told who you are.

  • Fri Sep 28, 2007 9:39 pm Agree: 19   Disagree: 0

    I believe nobody has the right to judge people in this manner. She isn't out there killing people or handing drugs to kids. She is on a TV dating show, I'm more than sure there is worse stuff in media. Why must people bicker about minor things like this

  • Fri Sep 28, 2007 8:52 pm Agree: 14   Disagree: 2

    I think that the post is absolutely rash. I myself am not a christian and don't intend to be. so someone can probably say i'm lost in sin. as christians shouldn't you be trying to "save" tila and those upon her show as opposed to bashing her and thus encouraging her even moreso to do her show? how does it create confusion to be bi, or gay, or transgendered. most people who come out know themselves quite well and are comfortable. not confused. if a child is raised within a christian family, but they watch mtv and they become lost in sin from watching it(which sounds quite absurd to me), then it was their choice. how are you to blame a network or another person for the choice that someone makes. if the generation CHOOSES to lose itself in sin, then shouldn't you blame them? if a christian is a true down to heart christian, they would not give in to a temptation as small as that, would they? i don't watch mtv, in fact i think it's absolute trash, but they have the right to air what they want. just because you don't like what they show does not give you the right to decide that it is wrong for the kids and others. you can say that YOU think it is morally wrong, because that only expresses opinion. every person is different and you can try to convince someone that something is wrong but in the end it is up to them to decide. i do not push my beliefs on anyone, but if they choose to follow then so be it. you can push and push and push but it's always a matter of choice. and you can push until someone just caves in but if someone didn't turn christian willingly then are they truly christian? i have many bi, lesbian, and gay friends. but them being around me doesn't confuse me and question my heterosexuality. i know i'm straight and i'm happy with it. others are happy with it. my gay friends are happy with themselves and i'm happy with them for being who they are. when articles like this are written, it only fuels the topic and not defuse. if a person has their own morals, and is their own person, and does things their own way, and just happens to do everything that is like that of a christian. are they going to be sent to hell? if they are a good person and they help the world and everyone around sees them as great, but they like to give in to sexual urges, are they going to hell after doing good for the world? it is good to believe in god and the word of the bible, but in the end it must be remembered that man wrote the bible and not god. you base on faith just as every other man, woman, and child born upon this earth does. you don't know for fact if you are right, but you have faith that you are. you can't push faith on others. don't fuel something that you don't like. walk with god and let the followers who choose to follow go with you, but don't drag people by chains.

  • Fri Sep 28, 2007 8:38 pm Agree: 10   Disagree: 0

    I think that the post is absolutely rash. I myself am not a christian and don't intend to be. so someone can probably say i'm lost in sin. as christians shouldn't you be trying to "save" tila and those upon her show as opposed to bashing her and thus encouraging her even moreso to do her show? how does it create confusion to be bi, or gay, or transgendered. most people who come out know themselves quite well and are comfortable. not confused. if a child is raised within a christian family, but they watch mtv and they become lost in sin from watching it(which sounds quite absurd to me), then it was their choice. how are you to blame a network or another person for the choice that someone makes. if the generation CHOOSES to lose itself in sin, then shouldn't you blame them? if a christian is a true down to heart christian, they would not give in to a temptation as small as that, would they? i don't watch mtv, in fact i think it's absolute trash, but they have the right to air what they want. just because you don't like what they show does not give you the right to decide that it is wrong for the kids and others. you can say that YOU think it is morally wrong, because that only expresses opinion. every person is different and you can try to convince someone that something is wrong but in the end it is up to them to decide. i do not push my beliefs on anyone, but if they choose to follow then so be it. you can push and push and push but it's always a matter of choice. and you can push until someone just caves in but if someone didn't turn christian willingly then are they truly christian? i have many bi, lesbian, and gay friends. but them being around me doesn't confuse me and question my heterosexuality. i know i'm straight and i'm happy with it. others are happy with it. my gay friends are happy with themselves and i'm happy with them for being who they are. when articles like this are written, it only fuels the topic and not defuse. if a person has their own morals, and is their own person, and does things their own way, and just happens to do everything that is like that of a christian. are they going to be sent to hell? if they are a good person and they help the world and everyone around sees them as great, but they like to give in to sexual urges, are they going to hell after doing good for the world? it is good to believe in god and the word of the bible, but in the end it must be remembered that man wrote the bible and not god. you base on faith just as every other man, woman, and child born upon this earth does. you don't know for fact if you are right, but you have faith that you are. you can't push faith on others. don't fuel something that you don't like. walk with god and let the followers who choose to follow go with you, but don't drag people by chains.

  • Fri Sep 28, 2007 8:22 pm Agree: 13   Disagree: 1

    A response to JLME...

    I didn't read your whole post, but it reminded me of something. There was a time when a man could love another man and not be ashamed. This love wasn't a homosexual love, but a strong, brotherly love. Best friends are an example of this. Yet because the church has taught that homosexuality is wrong, people have become afraid of letting out their true feelings. Now men must do manly things. Hugging another man is "gay" This has lead many young teens to think the feelings they have for other teens of the same sex as feeling of homosexuality, rather than what it really is: bortherly love. It is the church that has confused and corrupted these teens. Sounds like Satan is more prevalant in the Church than God.

  • Fri Sep 28, 2007 8:14 pm Agree: 9   Disagree: 0

    This story is blasphemy and the writers blasphemers. Only God can judge, and look at what you are writing here, a 1000 word judgement. If you don't believe me look in the Bible... You know, that black book you say you all read but actually don't. Now not being a christian myself, it is not blasphemous to judge, so I think that you all are fake and hypocritical. You say your politicians (Repukes) have moral values. So, who's worse, a married man who lies with another woman or a married man who lies with another man? So far democrats aren't guilty of being gay adulterers, It's all come from the Republican Party. I though the message of Jesus was Love and Peace and yet Bush hates and wars, along with the rest of you. Lemme tell you all something, as much as I dislike seeing kids dress in emo clothes and listening to heavy metal music, It's a whole lot better than the lies the church sells. Not just christianity but islam and judaism too. At least they're being themselves. One last thing, the worst most evil kids I know came from private christian schools. Put that in your pipe and smoke it. I'll be happy to respond to anything anyone has to say. I'm not always going to be right, nobody is, but I'm going to give it my best shot. I also would think it hilarious if this post was taken off this site, proof of the lies and deceit.

  • JLME »
    Fri Sep 28, 2007 8:12 pm Agree: 5   Disagree: 0

    I think you're crazy for thinking that.

    I am not religious, but I thought I would give my opinion on what you think about this.

    Now, half of the teenage community is Gay/Lesbian/Bi, and about 2/4 of that gay community of gay teens are religious. How do you think those kids feel about them selves? When they are looked down apon by people of the religious community? It would make you sad, and lonely.

    I think this show is great for those kids, to make them feel like they are needed some where, and some place.Like they are allowed to put them selves out there, in the neatest fashion.

    I myself, am trying to figure out if I am straight or bi, weather or not women also make me feel good. I mostly think it helps me more to figure it out when I am not religious. I am still a good person. I have good grades, I am compassionate, and I am an artist.

    I honestly think since this is a Christian posting site, for those who fallow the bible, will agree with you, and will make you feel that your post is great, and that it's accurate. But I don't think so.

    Now, I am not trying to bash your beliefs, so don't get me on the wrong page.

    So, my last thing I have to say, and remind you of. Doesn't say somewhere in that thick black book that you should love every one, no matter what?

  • Fri Sep 28, 2007 8:09 pm Agree: 5   Disagree: 0

    And in reply to dannygirlagain...Ozzy Osbourne isn't a witch. He's a musician who yes, had problems with drugs and alcohol, but he wasn't a witch or a warlock or anything.

  • Fri Sep 28, 2007 8:08 pm Agree: 5   Disagree: 2

    I appologize ahead of time If what I say offends anyone; but Being 19 and a generation of Tilas fans I have to say this is all rediculous. However I may believe this show is bit over done just like several others such as "Flavor Of Love"; but yet no one said anything about him. Just because being "Gay, Bisexual" or what have you is apparently looked down upon in the Christian community does not give anyone the right to say anything about anyone. I was always brought up to treat everyone equally and my family are Christians. It has been brought to my attention on more than one occiation in the past few years that the Christian Community has basicaly said It is morally wrong to be the person you are. I believe you do not choose to be the person you are, God made every person who they are for a reason. All I ask is, what is wrong with someone living their life the way they want if no one else is getting hurt. As for all the preteen and teen pregnancies, everything happens for a reason, People need to learn from their own mistakes and learn to take responsabilty for their actions and if having a baby at 12-14 is the outcome..so be it.

  • Fri Sep 28, 2007 8:05 pm Agree: 11   Disagree: 2

    So I honestly don't understand why this is even on this website. In America, people and television stations have the right to say and air whatever they want. If MTV wants to air a show with a bisexual woman and lesbians...then fine. If you are so against it, don't watch it and don't let your children watch it. It's that simple. I think this article was the biggest waste of time to write and read.

  • Fri Sep 28, 2007 7:53 pm Agree: 18   Disagree: 3

    How about this for all of you, doesn't the bible say ONLY GOD CAN JUDGE, so you are you people to say what is wrong and what is not, when your'e own priests have their way with little children and you say being gay is wrong, maybe in your eyes, God created all of us to live, and that may be all we know for sure, so stop complaining about other people lives and enjoy your own, no church or no ma has any right to judge a single person,and as for gays, lesbians and bi's let them do what they want and live your own life, and television is nothing but entertainment anyhow, meanwhile the most watched and violent show is the news bet you all watch that too,

  • Thu Sep 20, 2007 10:08 pm Agree: 3   Disagree: 15

    Its funny how so many are puzzled as to why teen pregnancy rate is so high, why underage drinking is so prevalent, why divorce rates are at insane highs, and why so many parents are single and struggling. As it was said, teens spend hours and hours a week watching MTV..MTV consistantly airs shows like "The Hills" which claims to be about modeling, yet 90% of the time its on air, the women are drunk and partying like a wild animal, sleeping with some dude they thought was "hot" and then they have to be told about it the next day, only to laugh it off as if it were nothing. If the show isnt about getting drunk, its about sex. The show "Next", ok not only is it very poorly scripted, but every single show is about who is hot enough to date yet easy enough to get into bed with. Even on a "gay" episode, one man boasts about how many men he has had relations with! This is sheer chaos! Any child in this country regaurdless of age, can turn to this channel, and in less than 30 mins, learn probably all the basics to sex! It is not puzzling at all why young men give in to woman, and young woman quickly give in to young men when it comes to teenage sex...they dont see anything wrong with it! Sure, they are told its best to wait..but MTV can only encourage condoms at its best, to discourage teen pregnency, because they turn around and play a sexually expicit music video or show right after the commercial. Though responsible parents stress abstinence say 3 times a week, that same teenager can turn on MTV and find 6-12 "good" reasons to go for it! This has got to stop or the up coming generations are in for a lot of trouble that only with the help of God himself will they be able to over come. And its already happening today...just pay attention, its so easy to just brush it off, but the more we brush it off, the further "they" (MTV in this instance) will take it.It doesnt matter if they are a multi-million dollar buisness, or even multi-billion dollar, God is infinetly more powerful. We have to start praying and I believe to start petitiioning against MTV.

  • Mon Sep 17, 2007 3:01 am Agree: 3   Disagree: 1

    Thanks didymus for taking the time to reply........

  • Mon Sep 17, 2007 12:00 am Agree: 5   Disagree: 0

    da6383ma,

    You bring up a good question, and I admit that I don’t know the full answer. But I think there are a few things that we have to keep in mind as we look at the porn issue… okay, wait a second… don’t look at the porn issue, just consider it. :^)

    1. Porn has grown as you mentioned in large measure because of major advances in technology. In the 70’s we still had dial phones, and TV antennas, I don’t know when VHS came into existence, but my mom and dad didn’t have it in the 70’s, there was no cable, no DVD’s, no satellite channels, no internet. Affordable technology has brought access, making it so much easier to obtain porn than was ever possible before.

    2. The root of the porn industry, sexual sin, has always been there. So, in a very real way, nothing has really changed with the growth of the porn industry. People are still sinners, just as they were before the porn industry. You can try pushing for legislation to regulate porn, or even ban it altogether, and I’m not saying that this wouldn’t be a bad idea, but politics isn’t going to solve the real root of the problem, the sexual sin in men’s hearts that underwrites the porn industry can’t be legislated away.

    3. The differences between worldliness and Christianity are becoming more distinct, and in my opinion, this isn’t really all that bad of a thing if you think about it. Before, and for too long here in America, worldliness hid behind a façade of Christendom, appearing as “Christian” society, resulting in the church being lax in being church, and people thinking they’re Christians simply because they were born here. Today, the church is discovering that it doesn’t have a nice cozy Christendom to sit in any more, and actually has to get out and work and think.

    So, I think, let the porn industry run its course, let it do its thing. And we Christians will run our course. He who has ears, let him hear.

  • Sun Sep 16, 2007 4:06 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    To didymus,...thanks, I believe you are right on almost all points,...and it seems like you have a good perspective on this,..but one thing I wonder is,...back in the early to mid-70`s and beyond, the porn thing used to be a little more than a cult following, ya know, for people that wanted it,no more and no less....and now look around, its almost like one can run but you can`t hide its exploded into a multi-billion dollar Industry, with some that have bumper stickers on their cars that read "Porn Star" and it started out to be a cottage group following that never meant to harm anyone,..It has spread like a plague........

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