Exercise Influence

I don't know about you, but there are times when I've wondered why in the world God decided to keep me living in this broken world. Wouldn't it be so much better if we had just disappeared into eternity the moment God saved us? Sometimes I wish that was the biblical reality of salvation.

But that's not what God had in mind. You and I are left here for a reason. And it's not because God has forgotten about us. It's not because God enjoys seeing us suffer difficulty. It's not because God is cold, calloused, and uncaring.

I could make many arguments for why we're still here, but I only want to focus on one reason today: influence. Exercising influence is one of the most important reasons that you're living where you are, right here, right now.

Remember, the God who has decided to leave you here is the Light of lights - the Savior of the world, the Redeemer who is making all things new. And God calls all His children to be lights. The Apostle Paul says in Philippians 2 that we are "in the midst of a crooked and twisted generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world" (Philippians 2:15).

You see, you were never brought into this wonderful relationship with God so that you could hoard the blessings of grace for yourself. You were welcomed into God's family so that you could celebrate that position by being part of something bigger than your own little everyday life. God didn't give you His grace in order to make your little kingdom work. God gave you His grace in order to invite you to a much better kingdom.

Do you know what it means to exercise influence where you are for the sake of God's bigger kingdom? I've come to discover three helpful things about influence:

Influence = Thought

Influence is a way of thinking. It's a whole different way of looking at and interpreting life. With this way of thinking, I don't start with my kingdom - I start with God's kingdom.

I force myself to think that I have now been welcomed into the big sky, transcendent purposes of the kingdom of God. Those purposes have become my purposes. That identity has become my identity. I get up and try to think from that perspective where I am, every day.

Influence = Attitude

Influence is also an attitude. Influence is about moving into the world with an attitude (or a heart) shaped by compassion, love, mercy, and justice. An influential attitude is gentle, patient, and kind. It's humble, giving, and forgiving.

In short, it's about loving your neighbor as yourself. I get up and try to have an attitude that responds to live with love and compassion for others.

Influence = Action

Finally, influence is an action. You can't simply think and feel about the kingdom of God without action. That's what James 2:14-17 is all about. If you see someone without food or clothes and say, "My heart is moved with compassion for you - I hope you find food and clothes soon!" what good is that?

Biblical influence is all abut asking the question, "Where can I act?" Where are acts of compassion, love, mercy, justice, gentleness, and kindness needed? Where has God given me the opportunity to jump in and be part of radical change?

Those three things - thought, attitude, and action - are helpful guidelines for exercising influence. But you can't start there. Why? Because you first have to admit that your heart is easily influenced by another kingdom.

You see, our primary problem is not that we don't know how to exercise influence. Our primary problem is that something else is eating us up and taking our influence away. Could it be, perhaps, that your influence is exercised in pursuit of the wrong kingdom?

Remember: God has given you the grace you need to abandon your little kingdom and participate in a much better kingdom. Ask yourself - "where can I exercise influence for a better kingdom?"

Paul David Tripp is a pastor, author, and international conference speaker. He is the president of Paul Tripp Ministries and works to connect the transforming power of Jesus Christ to everyday life. This vision has led Paul to write 13 books on Christian living and travel around the world preaching and teaching. Paul's driving passion is to help people understand how the gospel of Jesus Christ speaks with practical hope into all the things people face in this broken world. For more resources, visit

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