Kaeley Harms

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  Aug 22, 2026

  Is Lindsay Clancy a victim, a killer or both?

  Three children are dead either way, and no diagnosis reverses that. But diminished capacity isn't nothing, and pretending otherwise doesn't serve anyone — least of all the truth.

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  Aug 11, 2026

  Christian activism and the confrontation addiction problem

  If it's fun for you to get up in someone's face and try to dominate them, you've stopped ministering to that person. You're using them. You're ministering to your own ego.

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  Jul 28, 2026

  What NBC’s emotional blackmail about the Idaho teen suicide story left out

  It's genuinely reckless to use a platform the size of NBC's to insist that kids will die without these drugs and never once stop to explain why serious people have real reservations.

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  Jul 21, 2026

  6 ways Christians sometimes avoid difficult conversations

  My hope is that naming these patterns will help sincere Christians think more critically before adopting them.

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  Jul 16, 2026

  To the women surviving divorce from an abusive marriage

  This is for the women leaving abusive marriages, the ones trying to hold onto their sanity.

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  Apr 14, 2026

  What is spiritual bypassing? Why your faith shouldn't ignore your pain

  We cannot bypass the messy parts of our faith.

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  Apr 1, 2026

  Men are attracted to weakness: A theology of small women

  If you train men to equate femininity with immaturity, you should not be shocked when maturity no longer attracts them.

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  Mar 25, 2026

  Christian conservatives are wildly overcorrecting with their opposition to feminism. Here’s why

  We cannot correct an error by embracing a different one.

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  Mar 15, 2026

  Reflections on Mark Driscoll and the churches that follow

  At some point the Church must acknowledge that patterns reveal character, and the character trumps the charisma.

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  Feb 1, 2026

  It was never just the women

  We will get nowhere by dumping all responsibility onto one sex.