Updated 11:59 pm.EST, Fri November 20, 2009

Church|Tue, Nov. 10 2009 03:21 PM EDT

Megachurch Pastor Challenges Hypocrites, Pretenders

By Audrey Barrick|Christian Post Reporter

A pastor at one of the largest churches in the country launched a new sermon series addressing the hypocrisy and the pretending prevalent among Christians.

Entitled "The Pretenders," the series draws attention to the biblical time when Jesus went not to the red light district, the nightclub or the boardroom to confront the hypocrites but to church.

"[Jesus'] main problem with the ... religious leaders in his day is that they were hypocrites," said Kyle Idleman, teaching minister at Southeast Christian Church in Louisville, Ky. "That's what he calls them to their face."

Over the weekend Idleman, who also admitted he wasn't perfect and was a sinner like everyone else, addressed the hypocrites in the church today saying, "There are pretenders among us. They're putting on a performance. ...They've learned to wear this mask in church."

There are unmarried couples who are "sitting next to each other in church pretending that their relationship was just as pure last night as it appears to be right now," he noted. "There are pretenders who will sing amazing grace with tear-filled eyes but they refuse to extend that same grace to a family member who hurt them."

"There are pretenders who have become experts at separating their faith from their political views ... from their money management ... and from their entertainment preferences," he added. "There are pretenders who spend an hour and a half every day in front of a mirror making sure everything looks great on the outside but just can't seem to find 10 minutes to read their Bible or to pray.

"There are pretenders who are so quick to point out and condemn the sexual immorality in their culture but don't seem too concerned about their lust."

Studies conducted by LifeWay Research in 2007 have shown that most people outside and inside the church believe hypocrisy is prevalent among believers. Among the unchurched, 72 percent said they think the church is full of hypocrites, and 67 percent of 20- to 29-year-olds said the same.

There are two groups of hypocrites Christians tend to fall into, Idleman observed. They include the Sadducees and the Pharisees, who made up the religious ruling body in Jesus' time. The Sadducees made up the chief priests and elders and were born into that position. The Pharisees, meanwhile, were Jews who studied their way into their position.

Many pretenders today see their faith as something they were born into and never chose, Idleman explained.

"You know how to act, you know what to say, you know what to do ... but you never chose it," the Southeast minister said. "You got the part down but it was never real."

"As long as you could remember you've always had that mask. In fact, you've had it so long that you don't even know what you look like without it," he added.

To such pretenders, Jesus would say "woe to you, you hypocrites," Idleman said.

But a lot of pretenders are more like the Pharisees, Idleman believes. They see their faith as "intellectual knowledge and behavioral compliance."

Such Christians may say all the right things and follow all the rules, but their hearts don't reflect that, he indicated.

"It's not enough just to know the right things and to say the right things. [Jesus] wants it to be in your heart," the minister stressed. "Jesus summed up the Pharisees in this way – they honor me with their lips but their hearts are far from me."

Just as Jesus was upfront and harsh in rebuking the hypocrisy among the religious leaders, Idleman urged Christians to also be brutal with themselves.

"Be brutal. Be broken," he encouraged. "Jesus is trying to hold up a mirror and tell us the truth."

The cure for pretending, he said, is confessing one's sins.

"When you take the mask off ... you find a peace for your soul that just doesn't come when you're faking it," said Idleman.

Southeast Christian Church is the 12th largest church in America, according to Outreach magazine's 2008 top 100 list.

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  • Tue Nov 17, 2009 2:01 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    schumacr -

    Sorry, I meant "rj48" in my reply.

    rj48 -

    Apology accepted. We can certainly agree to disagree but how we do it makes all the difference.

  • Tue Nov 17, 2009 12:52 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    Amen Brother! You nailed it! "You must be born-again" Jn 3:3. Lots of pretenders, but even a lot of pretenders (I believe) do not know they are pretending, they believe they are Christians, they may just think they're not one of those born-agains. Just like every unsaved person, they are, whether they realize it or not are holding onto a "little" bit of goodness they have to offer God thinking that will appease Him, because after all they're not pushing a hypodermic in their vain like Jim Bob that lives under 610 West.

  • Sun Nov 15, 2009 2:08 pm Agree: 1   Disagree: 1

    To Pastor Idleman, I say Hallelujah, You go Brother!!
    You are so right that most of those Americans who declare themselves Christians are Xians only in name. Call 'em out, tell them they are not "true Christians" that they are just a bunch of hypocrites and false pretenders. Give 'em heck!!!

    But when most of those cafeteria Christians that make up the majority and give you radicals a power base see that to be True Christians they will have to give up pleasures of the flesh, become anti-gay bigots, ignore science and make any number of personal sacrifices & compromises that the ancient superstitions & myths you believe in call for then they will abandon the pretense and join the growing ranks of Non-Believers.

    At least we aren't hypocrites. Come on to the Rational Side, We atheists will love you no matter what!!

  • rj78 »
    Fri Nov 13, 2009 11:08 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    schumacr, sbirch-

    I don't agree but I apologize if I crossed a line. Please forgive me.

  • Fri Nov 13, 2009 2:44 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    schumacr -

    "Apparently you also enjoy condemning fellow believers. I have heard enough in this article to know what kind of man he is. If Christ were here He would rebuke Americane Idleman to his face."

    1) I didn't condemn you.
    2) So you didn't listen to the sermon but relied on a reporter's account even thought it doesn't contain everything.

    "American idleman apparently is so ful of hate he can't take time to read hihs Bible. Neither, apparently, do you. "

    That's sad. You don't know me. You don't know how much, how often, etc I read my Bible, commit versus to memory, meet with my Bible Study.

    Wow... You don't know what you're talking about. Obviously, misinformed and feels free to judge others (per your words not mine).

    Sad really....

  • Fri Nov 13, 2009 9:59 am Agree: 0   Disagree: 0

    Flagged as inappropriate. show Pastor Idleman went on to say, "Some people pretend to put money in the collection basket but they really don't. Some of you Christians only put in five bucks. Jesus wants you to do better people. My new swimming pool isn't gonna pay for itself. Can I get an Amen?" hide

  • Fri Nov 13, 2009 8:37 am Agree: 1   Disagree: 0

    rj78 - yes indeed, Matt. 23 primarily deals with Christ's rebuke against the religious leaders of His day, but I would respectfully say you are omitting the third step in Biblical hermeneutics, which is 'application' (observation-interpretation-application). Do you think today's Church might have people who legalistically perform their duties (e.g. tithe) and yet fail to show mercy and love to those around them (vs. 23). Or maybe others who work hard at looking righteous on the surface, yet live a different life when out of public view (vs. 25)? This is where the all important step of application comes in; else, if we followed your stance, we could just take out a razor blade, cut Matt. 23 from our Bibles, and not lose a thing when it comes to us today.

    Lastly, I would argue you fail to make the distinction between how a pastor works from the pulpit with their congregation vs. one-on-one. In a church the size of Southeast, Kyle can't possibly know everyone who needs to hear an exhortation on being real, hence his message. But working one-on-one with someone? That's when a pastor works to gently turn a heart back from sin to God.

  • rj78 »
    Thu Nov 12, 2009 2:11 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 2

    schumacr-

    the reason churches rarely preach on Matthew 23 is because it is directed to a specific group of people at a specific time in history. The Pharisees and Sadduess were rabbis of a particuar set who were reigious professionals who did not show grace to their hearers.

    That was why they were sad, you see?

    Christ was not talking to the general Christian population of today. God knows none of us will live perfect lives. He expects us to live excellent lives. God's grace is available daily to those who seek HIm (1 John 1:5-10). Ths grace is available beause God knows we cannot do the faith walk by ourseles (John 15:1-4).

    We are accountable to God, who wants His shepherds to gently restore those in sin, not denounce them as hypocrites. Mans wrath regarding politics or investments or movies does not bring about the righteousness God requires.

  • rj78 »
    Thu Nov 12, 2009 10:04 am Agree: 0   Disagree: 2

    birch-

    yes I am comfortable in judging him. Apparently you also enjoy condemning fellow believers. I have heard enough in this article to know what kind of man he is. If Christ were here He would rebuke Americane Idleman to his face.

    Christ never bullied anyone. By the way, those scripture used in the sermon deal with profesisonal religious people. American idleman apparently is so ful of hate he can't take time to read hihs Bible. Neither, apparently, do you. be careful: with the same measure you judge others so you too will be judged.

  • Wed Nov 11, 2009 8:01 pm Agree: 1   Disagree: 1

    mike - what I was trying to show you was that Kyle didn't need correcting: you merely have to watch the first 3-5 minutes of his message to see that he says he's a sinner just like the rest of us. If God required perfect pastors and teachers, every church position would go unfilled. And far from picking the easy verses, Kyle tackles some tough territory as he teaches through Matthew 23, which is avoided by many because it's not something folks like to hear. Lastly, your reference to Mal. 2:7 is, I believe, off the mark if you want to use it in this context; it's more of a praise than a rebuke where this message is concerned.

  • mike »
    Wed Nov 11, 2009 4:07 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 1

    to schumacr
    why is it when somebody corrects a pastor, they perceive that they are judged & criticized. but doesn't pastors & televangelist do that too?
    so don't say I am criciticizing him when they do it too. and isn't that hypocrisy?
    just because they are pastors of televangelist, doesn't mean they are perfect & always right.
    even christ rebuked the pharisees for their hypocrisy. he even rebuked a 'synagogue leader for lack of compassion when he healed her on a sabbath. and when that happens, they get insulted & start labeling other just bec. they were rebuked. I also find pastors & televangelist cafeteria christians too. they pick the easy verses that is why they don't understand how life works. I have experience bondage instead of freedom bec. a pastor gave me a verse that cause me to stumble

    malachi 2:7
    the priest are the messengers of god. they should give instructions but they have caused many to stumble.

  • Wed Nov 11, 2009 10:39 am Agree: 4   Disagree: 0

    sbirch - you're exactly right! And for mike and rj78: read through Matthew 23, which is Kyle's text for his series, and then tell me how Jesus never talked tough when the crowd needed it. And believe me, today's Church needs it! Pastors who aren't afraid to preach and teach such truths need to be run to, not away from.

  • Wed Nov 11, 2009 10:09 am Agree: 4   Disagree: 1

    rj78 - Kyle addresses those other areas too. He's not anything close to a "spiritual bully". Interesting how comfortable you in judging him. Have you listened to more than a couple of his sermons to then make any assessment or merely what you read here in print?

    mike - you need to listen to the sermon and not rely merely on a reporters article. He starts off my saying that he too is a hyprocrite and up there with the best of them. Interesting how you draw your conclusions but haven't even seemed to listen to the sermon.

    It seems that people are quite comfortable on the web firing off mean-spirited comments or making claims about things that they seem to no little about, yet would never do that if they saw that person "in person". Sad times we live in.

  • rj78 »
    Wed Nov 11, 2009 9:46 am Agree: 0   Disagree: 5

    Kyle Idleman and Paul Washer are what my former pastor would call spiritual bullies. I have one word of advice to those who sit under these hypocrites' ministries: run!

    Christ's burden is easy and HIs yoke is light. Pastors are called to gently restore those who have sin in their lives. Confesion of sin is a daily part of every believer's life. So is God's mercy!

  • Wed Nov 11, 2009 7:45 am Agree: 5   Disagree: 0

    mike - instead of criticizing Kyle, why don't you watch the opening minutes of his message and then come back and apologize: http://www.southeastchristian.org/sermons/?id=808

  • Tue Nov 10, 2009 8:33 pm Agree: 3   Disagree: 6

    Flagged as inappropriate. show To Pastor Idleman, I say Hallelujah, you are so right that most those Americans who declare themselves Christians are Xians only in name. But when most of those cafeteria Christians see that to be True Christians they will have to give up pleasures of the flesh, become anti-gay bigots, ignore science and any number of personal sacrifices that the superstitions call for then they will abandon the pretense and join the growing ranks of Non-Believers. At least we aren't hypocrites. hide

  • Tue Nov 10, 2009 7:49 pm Agree: 2   Disagree: 0

    Yeshua also criticized religious leaders because he started "at home". I hope they do the same (i.e. church constitution and bylaws that contradict God's word, demanding pew rent but then ignoring the Sabbath, unbiblical model of leadership, etc.).

  • mike »
    Tue Nov 10, 2009 5:19 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 6

    to cheisa

    so pastors & televangelist are not people or persons too? you are right that there is honest appraisal of oneself. but not all people should do the self appraisal. the book of job describes that he was an honest man but his friends accused him of sinning that is why he is suffering.

    in the bible there are 2 groups of people, the religious leaders who run the synagogues & the other are the ordinary people. christ told the religious leaders that the sick needs a doctor and rebuked them that they are a hindrance to those who want to enter the kingdom of god.. in the parable of the great banquet the great king invited the sick, lame, blind, poor, outcast.

    I will be honest with you that I am too a hypocrite. but will this great televangelist idlemann admit that he is? that is a question that you should also ask bec. there is no one righteous, not one and that is biblical.

  • Tue Nov 10, 2009 4:10 pm Agree: 7   Disagree: 0

    I think you can ask people to stop pretending and start being mroe honest, even if you aren't perfect yourself. The difference between imperfect people is that some admit to their faults and sins and others do not, even though their transgressions may be far worse. They tout themselves as great Christians when some aspects of their lives, like how they treat their families are despicable and thoroughly un-Christian. It's the honest self appraisal that separates good people with faults from pretenders.

  • mike »
    Tue Nov 10, 2009 3:49 pm Agree: 0   Disagree: 7

    pastor idleman,
    hypocrisy exists everywhere even at church & also practiced by eveybody including pastors. if you say to stop pretending, I guess that you are perfect & sinless.

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