'Safe Church: How to Guard Against Sexism and Abuse in Christian Communities' (book review)
This book is not just another call for church reform — it is a clarion call for the dismantling of spiritual abuse and systemic sexism.


This book is not just another call for church reform — it is a clarion call for the dismantling of spiritual abuse and systemic sexism.

One of the greatest obstacles to men speaking out against abuse is the normalization of exploitation.

No matter where you fall on the political spectrum, your highest calling remains unchanged.

In secular professions such as medicine, a physician known to sexually assault patients would be stripped of their credentials.

Regardless of intent, double abuse typically leaves a stronger impact than initial abuse. Double abuse teaches victims that people of God will not stand up for you.

What your teen needs to know, more than how to play a sport or perform on an instrument or even how to ace a college exam — is how to recognize the five stages of an abusive relationship.

A child who feels free to talk to their parents about absolutely anything, is a child more likely to tell you when something happens.

If you are reading this and you’re wondering if your own relationship is simply difficult or actually abusive, this free crash course will help you find safe answers.

As I’ve observed the firestorm of Butler’s hotly debated article, I was left with so many questions. Indeed, in what universe did a book describing the vagina as a Most Holy Place get labeled the “Protestant magnum opus on sexual ethics we’ve been waiting for”?

Every day offers a fresh set of choices waiting to be made. Fairy tales may not exist, but you can still choose happily ever after. Or not … all the choices are yours to make.
