Here's Why Trying to Please Man is so Futile
My daughter came into my room this morning and spotted a reddish container of lip- gloss that had fallen out of my purse. She immediately picked it up. Then, all 4-years of her looked over at me and said, "I have to put this on. I want everyone to see me nice."
She wanted the girls at her school to see her nice.
We all want to be seen nice, don't we? We try to put on our best face at get-togethers. We try to hide our nervousness and to soften our points of disagreement. We try to be the person everyone likes.
It is human nature to want to be seen: nice.
But what happens when, despite our best efforts to love, share, or to be honest, something goes horribly kaputz? What do we think in our mind when we tried, yet failed. When we speak and someone is offended? When we aim to apologize but the argument gets heated?
How do we contend when our best efforts go horribly wrong?
Galatians 6 says, "If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ".
Something here speaks to me. It says: If my goal highest goal is to ensure man is happy, I will hardly be in service to Christ.
The fact of the matter is while we look at people's faces, God always looks at hearts. And while we are tallying up what is happening with others, God might be working something fantastically new within them. Face-value reactions are not our guide; the Holy Spirit is.
When we are true to God, he will be true to see the best result through. We, in humility, wait and respond accordingly. Sometimes, it involves an, "I'm sorry," or "I should have done this better." All this is okay.
We just move with God, always. And rest in the truth that He has already figured out what we haven't. And this is peace that feels – nice.
Kelly Balarie is a popular writer and speaker. You can follow her at PurposefulFaith.com